Cat's away day one

 

Cat’s away day one

Cock was locked in a black nylon cage all day.

Beat my ass with a big wooden stirring paddle at lunch

Put on my leather collar and kept it on all night

Whipped my ass with a belt numerous times.

Inserted my smallest glass butt plug and kept it in all night.

Put Terrible Toys nipple clamps on which I kept tightening throughout.

Tied a shibari style rope around my upper torso and through my crotch.

Clover clamps on foreskin that was sticking out of the tip of the cage.

Clothes pins on my tight balls down to the taint

Took off clamps and pins and used vibrator with tiny shaft shoved into my urethra.

Used large rubber band to snap on my chest, left marks for over 24 hours. Plan to do this again and

make T marks for my Mistress T all over my body.

Tightened nipple clamps to excruciatingly tight crushing pain on nipples.

Beat ass one last time with belt with 65 lashings.

Went to bed with collar and nipple suckers on, butt plug in ass, pretty blue nightie and no panties.

Weights and chains and floggers, oh my!

 

Sometimes I get frustrated with what feels to me like lack of sexual activity in our relationship.

But usually when I am feeling like it is all over, T will do something amazing that makes it all wonderful again.

Recently we were visiting out daughter. Considering we were staying at her house and it was rather chilly in the room I did not expect anything sexual to happen. T surprised me when she came back to bed in the morning and went under the covers to attack my sleepy cock with her mouth. I really did not think it was up to getting hard at that point. It did start to rouse and just to help things along she straddled me and sat on my face. Her pussy was already damp and swollen. I licked and sucked and occasionally managed to pull in a breath of air. I love this position as her asshole is right over or right on my nose. Every breath that I struggle to pull into my nose is breathed from her ass. I love the feeling that my struggle to stay alive is fought with my nose in her asshole. With this in mind I totally lost control and came. There was no thought or even capability to ask permission. T kept me from screaming out loud by keeping her ass cheeks secured around the sides of my face.

When she did release me I was again surprised by my wonderful wife when she appeared before my face and kissed me. I” did not think she would want to kiss me after I had eaten her pussy and nose fucked her asshole. I was even more surprised when she released my load of come from her mouth into mine. We had stated at one time that if I came without permission I would be required to eat my come.

So I swallowed it down.

This past Saturday T was working. It was a warm day for this time of year and I played a little bondage in the woods with some rope tied tightly around my swollen cock and balls and wrapped tight around my chest. My leather belt was used to whip my ass, my cock and my chest.

That evening I went out to a movie theater by myself wearing fishnet stockings, black panties, a cock and ball ring and nipple suckers. After the movie I tortured myself. Attached a leather harness to my balls that has hooks hanging from it to attach weights. Tied ropes tight around my chest above and below my big pumped nipples. I have a bunch of brass rings that I usually wear around the base of my cock and balls and two “gates of hell” ring devices. All these I hung from my balls. Clover clamps on my nipples and finished up with two heavy ball stretching weights hung from my straining balls. My cock needed to suffer also and I covered it with clothes pins. As I stood in front of the mirror swinging the weights viciously back and forth my wife pulled into the driveway. How fast could I get all this stuff off myself? I rushed to pull off ropes, clamps and straps and had it all off by time she came to the bedroom.

Of course I was very aroused by then but it was very late and I could not expect her to want to do anything then. She had mentioned the day before that she might have me take a viagra and then have some play. I slept naked just to be ready.

The next morning I got up and made coffee and her diet Coke, then brought a snack of sliced bananas and oranges to bed for a snack. As we had our morning snack she commented upon my having slept naked and asked what I was in the mood for. Of course I said that I wanted to submit to her and be abused. She asked if I had done anything the day before. I sheepishly gave her a run down of all that I had done in her absence. She considered that then told me she wanted to see what all I had put on myself. Okay! She asked for it so I proceeded to put on all those weights and the nipple clamps. Clothes pins up the underside of my cock and around the head, a few more viciously clamped the rosebud of my asshole. She told me to get out what I wanted her to use on me. I got a leather belt, a leather paddle with red “SLAVE” written on it. She said that she thought I would get out the flogger, so I got that too. Glad I did!

She grabbed the weighted chains and swung them around. The clover clamps had hooks on them and she attached a pair of clover clamps with a chain connecting them to the hooks. She clipped the few remaining clothes pins to the chain.

She told me to bend over, but I had another idea. I had seen a picture of someone restrained with a device that is a 2 foot long bar with 4 velcro cuffs on it. I happen to have one and got that out. She had never seen it before. I knelt on the foot of the bed and helped her cuff my ankles to the outer pair. Then I put my head down and put my hands between my legs and put my wrists on the cuffs. She secured my wrists. I was helpless and at her mercy.

T started with the leather paddle and it felt great as she warmed up my ass. She spanked all over my ass and between my cheeks. After a few minutes she switched to the belt. She did not fold it over as I would but used it full length so it was quite stingy. I squirmed some with that but she really whipped me very long and hard. She said that would leave some marks and I thanked her for marking me.

Next came the leather flogger. This was very “thuddy”, the weight of it really making an impact. I really felt the impact when she used it on my back. The weight of it on my back just pounded me so well, I really enjoyed it almost like it was a massage.

Through all of this the weights were hanging from my balls down the foot of the bed. The clover clamps on my nipples burned painfully as my chest ground on the bed. It was awesome. This is what I crave for her to do. She said that she doesn’t want to hurt me but knows that I do this to myself so felt that is what I want and I certainly do. This session was probably the most pain she has ever dealt me and I am so proud of her for doing so.

T then released me from the cuffs and helped me unfold myself. She took off the clothes pins (ouch!) and had me take off the weights and ball harness. Then she told me to stroke my cock. I masturbated for her and got it good and hard. She told me to put on the “magic green string” a length of paracord which I tied around the base of my cock and balls. That always gets and keeps me hard.

She laid back on the bed and spread her legs, then told me to get her wet. I dove into her already wet pussy and licked and sucked it. I was laying on my chest and the clover clamps were tearing at my nipples, but I focused on making her feel good. After a few minutes she pulled my head away and said she wanted that hard cock in her.

I knelt up and put my hard cock in her wet pussy, she moaned in pleasure and I began fucking her. I was so aroused after all the activity of the day before and this day that I was soon groaning and struggling to not come. She asked if I wanted to come or be denied. I said that my body wanted to come, but my mind really wanted her to control me and not let me come. She said “That’s good, because you are not coming today, I am!” She then made me stop fucking her and get her vibrator.

I went down on her again and she used the magic wand on her clit. This tends to leave no room for my tongue on her pussy, but I don’t mind as I am pushed aside and left with having to tongue her asshole.

That’s what I did, licking her rosebud, pushing my tongue in her ass just as far as I could until she had a massive orgasm, releasing her pee that I sucked up out of her ass crack.

What an incredible session. I did buy her a bouquet of flowers as a thank you!

Hot time in the Summer

 

sexual highlights of summer 2021

While camping T tore nipple holes in my worn thin blue nightie, then put clothes pins on my nips then...

Major highlight—T used a lighter to burn my pubic mound off!!!. She also burned some hair off my thighs.

Very exciting to me and she thought it was fun too. She said if my balls weren’t shaved she could burn that off too. Have not shaved my cock and balls since then and will not until she burns it off me.

Leather whip was sticking out from under mattress one night and T pulled it out and had me bend over for a whipping. I think it was the first time she used it on me.

May have been the same day that I left whip and some other toys on bed with door open. She was angry that son may have seen them. She caned my ass with no warm up, so painful! Will not do that again.

While on our cruise I told her my fantasy of being tied up naked in our cabin and having her leave me there to go talk with people, maybe even standing on the roof right over my head.

She put clothes pins on my nipples and tied up my balls and cock with the “magic” green string which was then tied to my wrists over my head. She sucked my cock and got it very hard.

She gagged me with her used panties and left me to suffer.

When she returned she told me it had been 20 minutes. I thought she was just checking up on whether I was ok and I was prepared to ask her to leave me longer. An hour sounds exciting but would probably get boring. She told me to release myself and get dressed and come out then left me to my own devices,

A week later we had sex at my mother’s house. She can’t hear anything without her hearing aids.

T whipped my ass, then tied up my cock with the green string. She sucked me till I was dying to come then she mounted me and rode me until I did come. Then she sat on my face and I ate my cum from her pussy.

Anniversary day sex I had on a steel ball ring T sucked me till very hard. She pinched both nipples and I asked if I could please cum, she said that she hadn’t had her fun yet and mounted me. She fucked me so well and I begged to cum. She looked me in the eye, smiled and said NO.

Then she rolled off me and told me to get her vibrator out. I fucked her with a glass dildo as she brought herself to a great orgasm. Then I went to sleep frustrated and loving her so much for controlling me.

Shaved and whipped

A brief summary of some recent highlights as I sit here in a short steel cock cage. T is working late so I am tormenting myself. I had purchased two plastic chastity devices last year, but T did not have much interest in having me wear them. I recently succumbed to temptation and bought this steel cage. It was quite cheap, but the quality is not bad. It is only about 2 inches long, so I have to get it on very fast before I get aroused. I certainly know it is there, between the tight fit and the weight hanging on my cock and balls.

Last week we went on a trip for a week to a conference. It was a fun time in a fun city. Of course I was hoping for some hot hotel monkey sex and got that!

I managed to slip the new cane into T's luggage. One evening she put a pair of over the door cuffs on me and strung me up naked from the bathroom door. Then she used the cane to good measure on my ass. It was an extra thrill when a group of people walked down the hall outside our room. It was only about 6 feet from the door of the room to where she was whipping me. She kept on caning me and I wondered if they could hear the rhythmic whacks from under the door as they walked by. I hope they did!

The last couple years T has shaved my legs either in January or in the Fall. Last fall she shaved my legs, but only trimmed my mound to a stubble and announced that it would stay that way. Come spring when she told me stop shaving my legs, she told me to grow my mound too. I was allowed to continue shaving my cock, balls and ass.

The bathroom in our hotel room had a big marble countertop. I hinted very strongly that it was big enough for someone to lay on it and get shaved at the sink. I also bought a new package of razors.

Fortunately she took that hint and had me get up there naked. She used the razor to shear off my pubic mound, then lathered it up and shaved it clean. Now I have a lovely smooth white mound. She said that she would let me shave my legs after shorts season was over. We had a hot spell last week, but I think I am done with shorts and hope she lets me shave my legs soon.

This morning she said something about putting nail polish on. She said that it was just to protect one damaged fingernail and not because she was femmy enough to maintain polished nails. Then she tweaked my nipple and said “unlike some people!”. Then she hinted that she may put polish on my nails sometime. She has done my toenails a few times and it was wonderful.

She does surprise me at times, which she loves to do. I generally kneel at take her shoes off when she comes in the house or is undressing for bed. The other day she had just put her shoes on when she snapped her fingers and pointed down. I was so confused since she had just put her shoes on. I gave her a questioning look and she pointed down again. I knelt down and she said she just did that to give me a little thrill. She kissed me on top of the head and told me to carry on with what I was doing. I stood and pointed to the partial erection already showing through my pants and told her that she had indeed thrilled me.

A few weeks ago she had me get naked in the bedroom. She got a scarf and tied it around my head as a blindfold, then had me stand against the mirror on the back of the door with my hands over my head. She used her leather belt to whip my ass, then had me turn around and whipped my pubic mound hard.

“You like it hard there don't you?” she asked. I groaned that I did indeed and hoped that it was becoming nice and red. Then she surprised me when I heard the buzz of her magic wand and the sudden application of it's relentless vibrations to my cock. She got me dangerously close to coming and asked if I wanted to come. Oh yes, I wanted release, but we both knew that I would rather be denied until we went away on vacation. She put clamps on my nipples and left me standing there while she used the wand to bring herself to orgasm.

Another time recently we were home alone and she was doing laundry. She gave me a pile of damp jeans and told me to hang them on the clothesline outside. She told me that for every clothes pin I used to hang something that I was to place a pin on myself. I came back in the house with a dozen pins on my cock, balls and nipples. She seemed amused and pleased and left them on me for nearly an hour. Eventually she took them off slowly and enjoyed watching my reaction to the pain of the release.

Later she had me bring in the laundry and of course I had to wear each pin that I took off the line.

We have had a few sessions over the years where I scrubbed the wooden kitchen floor. By hand, on my hands and knees, naked, ball harness with a full soda bottle hanging from my nuts. A few months ago, we had a quiet morning at home and she said it would be a good time to do the floor. She put a leather dog collar around my neck and put on the ball harness. First I had to vacuum the floor. We were in the process of moving the table so I could vacuum under it when our daughter showed up at the kitchen door. It has a large glass window in at and she was very surprised to see me there naked. We both fled in opposite directions and I don't know how much she saw. Although she is our youngest, she is very free thinking and just laughed it off.

My wife would never allow it, but I wish that I could tell my daughters of the benefits of a female led relationship and encourage them to train their boyfriends or husbands to be a good submissive for them. I think that the benefits are great and only wish I had known about this many years ago.

Birthday whipping boy

Our kinky play started many years ago with birthday spankings. After a few years I really began to look forward to our birthdays and the opportunities to either give or receive a spanking. Eventually we did not need the excuse of a birthday spanking, but it was still often a special spanking occasion.

More recently the birthday spanking has not always happened due to busy schedules and home life. We talked about a birthday spanking for T recently including discussing whether she would get spanked or if her spanking boy (me) would take the spanking for her.

Last weekend we had the rare occasion of a Saturday morning with no kids at home. I suggested that it might be a good time for her birthday spanking. She asked if I wanted to give or receive. I really do love to be spanked and am always the one to get spanked now. Years ago, T was the one who got spanked. I asked if she would actually want to be spanked, just because she never gets to. She said that was fine, she felt no need to be spanked and that I could take it for her. Okay with me!

T told me to get out some spanking implements. I put out on the bed the following: small flogger, large flogger, riding crop, “rooster” leather fly swatter and two leather belts. She said I was missing something and it took me a moment or so to realize that she meant the switch that she had cut in the woods a few weeks ago. It's gives quite a sting!

T then used a bandana to blindfold me and used a scarf to tie my hands behind my back. Wow, a kinky spanking! She then started out by stroking the flogger gently and teasingly over me. She does love to tease! Then she began lightly flogging me all over, then working up to whapping me hard with the small flogger. This led to using the larger flogger, then the crop. I am not sure if she used everything since I could not see. Usually a birthday spanking is either the number of years on each body part to be spanked or the number of years with each implement. If she was counting at all I could not tell and I was just as happy to receive as many swats as she felt like giving me. She did give me swats, hits, whipping and beatings on my ass, thighs, back, nipples, belly, cock, balls and asshole. I am such a pain slut as I really encouraged her to whip my balls, telling her that they were useless and only good for torturing. She replied to that by getting out a bunch of clothespins and putting them on my scrotum, such delicious pain.

A month or so ago she had spun a fantasy about removing the hair from around my nipples. That is the only place on my chest that has hair. I heard her getting something from the bathroom and was excited when she returned and I felt her using tweezers to pull on the hairs, then yanking them out of my chest.

She did a very thorough job and got every hair. I told her that I really wanted to have her remove these signs of masculinity from my body. After all the hairs was plucked from my nipples, she moved down and pulled some from my pubic mound. My cock and balls are completely shaved already, but she did pluck some from my inner thighs.

She then told me to get down on the floor on my back. She kicked my legs apart and made me spread my arms. I felt very vulnerable like this and she took advantage of this as she whipped my chest, cock and balls. She then told me to pull my knees up so she could inspect my ass hole. She used the tweezers to yank some hairs there that I had missed while shaving then whipped my wide spread hole.

She then left me on the floor and I heard the buzz of the magic wand vibrator as she used it on her pussy. I was left naked and blindfolded on the floor with my balls covered with clothespins as she brought herself to an orgasm while I shook those pins as hard as I could. I love when she has her pleasure while I am suffering in pain.

I was still blindfolded as she straddled my face and placed her wet pussy on my mouth. I was only too happy to eat her! After a minute or two of that I was happily shocked to feel the magic wand vibrator on my cock. She used it to vibrate the clothespins that were still on my scrotum. Then she used it on my cock head.

I put my arms under her legs and at first she thought I was trying to push her away, then realized I reacted positively when my wrist was pinned down. Yes, that's what I want, to be pinned down helplessly on the floor, her pussy grinding on my face, as she tortures my cock. This was just so intense along with that relentless magic wand that I had no ability to even think about not coming. It was happening whether I wanted to or not. She made me come with a roar and scream, then she kept up the relentless vibrations in what was becoming excruciating post orgasm torture. The orgasm was so great, but I just wanted it to stop. I got what I deserved though, as she dominated me and tortured me.

Finally she removed the wand and wiped up my cum. I had completely forgotten about our recent “rule” that if I orgasm, I must eat my cum. Next thing I knew, she was using her fingers to feed my my cum and wipe it all over my lips. This was very degrading and submissive, but I loved it.

I was shocked back to reality when she took the first clothespin off. They always hurt most coming off and even more so when it after the orgasm! She said, “ Oh, I should have thought to take these off when you were coming.”

I was so satiated that I just wanted to stay there on the floor and sleep. What a great birthday spanking that turned out to be and I was so happy to be her whipping boy.

Your boy is my slave

My wife had the day off and suggested that I might come home for lunch and clean the kitchen floor while she was home.  Of course I went home for lunch.
After we ate she sent me to the bedroom to get properly undressed for floor scrubbing.  She suggested that my ball stretcher was typical for this job.
I put on the stretcher and also wore a short little dress that she has set aside in a "some day it may fit again" stack.
It was rather small for me, but it buttons up the front, so I left it unbuttoned from the waist down.
I also brought my leather collar and a riding crop.  She put the collar around my neck and put me to work.
I brought the vacuum cleaner as directed and vacuumed the floor first.  I put the machine away and went to get the wash bucket.  T asked if I had moved the table out of the way when vacuuming.  "no".
For that she told me to lift my skirt and bend over the table. She then used the crop on my ass.

After I had finished vacuuming the floor to her standards I put water and cleanser in the bucket and got a rag.
I have lots of rags now since my loving wife and Mistress gave me a whole stack for Christmas.
T also sent me to put a red jewelled butt plug in my ass.
I got down on the floor and started scrubbing.  I quickly realized that the small dress was cutting into my armpits a lot.  This was limiting my ability to scrub and might leave some lasting marks.  I would not mind but I have a doctor appointment next week.  I asked permission to take it off and got back down on the floor naked on my hands and knees to continue scrubbing the floor, while she was fully dressed.
T got on the phone and called her mother.  I could only imagine what she might be thinking as she talked with her mother and watched her husband naked on the floor with his balls bound, plug up his ass and scrubbing her floor.  A far cry from the way her mother's marriage was.

After I finished the floor, T told me to dump the bucket outside and report to her.  I took the bucket outside, naked in the winter cold and dumped the dirty water.  I reported back to her in front of the nice warm wood stove.  She had the crop in her hand and told me to lean on the mantle over the stove while she warmed me up.  She cropped my ass, warming it up.
While she was whipping my ass she was talking about calling her mother. Then she said maybe she should call my mother too while I was in this state.  "Maybe tell her that her little boy is my slave now", she said.  I groaned with arousal and humiliation as she said this. She pulled my balls back with the stretcher and smacked them with the crop.  She finished with four hard smacks to my ass.

"Time to get dressed for real work now and get back to the office" she said.  I knelt before her and relished my submission.  She put the crop in my mouth, put a clothes pin on each nipple and sent me on my way.

Please whip me

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Anniversary island vacation

Last week was our long anticipated anniversary trip to an island retreat. Unfortunately I don't have time to give a detailed narration but I do want to at least make an outline of most of the things (sexually) that we did.

One of my top goals was to be shaved and T used her tiny crochet scissors to cut off all my pubic hair and painstakingly snip the hair from my legs. It took forever and I give her great credit and much thanks for doing so. After that, I got in the shower and she shaved me. The visibility was poor so there was a bit of clean up to do the next day, including shaving the tops of my toes, which I have never done before. So girly! I love the look and feel of my smooth legs and going out in public in shorts that way was really not a big deal after all.

The first night in the hotel, T presented me with a gift of a nighty and a pair of black lace panties. The nighty is black and brown print like leopard skin, so animal! It has lace at the top of the chest and all the way around the hem. It is mid thigh length, rides up just to my crotch when I pull my legs up in bed. I love it and wore it every night.

She also gave me two pairs of nylon panties, one is black to be worn as a bathing suit and the other hot pink. I wore the swim suit when we were swimming off the boat in private, unfortunately I did not get a tan line that showed what I had been wearing. I brought the white crochet bathing suit, but never did wear it.

T found a palm frond stem on the ground outside of our cottage. It looked a lot like a riding crop and she put it in the cottage for later use.

T decided that she needed to buy a pair of cheap flip flops to wear to the waterfront and we went to the local K-Mart.  She found a pair that had a black woven style toe strap and a white and black pattern on the top of the foot pad.  She had me try on a pair there in the store and decided that we should have matching flip flops.  At first glance they don't look too feminine, but they certainly are women's, and I delighted in wearing them out in public.

One day in the boat, she used a whole pack of clothes pins on my cock and balls. After she took them off, I playfully put one on her labia through her bathing suit. She didn't tell me to stop, so I put a few more on. She pulled down the suit and let me place the whole pack of them on her labia with one on each nipple and the last right on her clit. Then I took them off one by one and kissed and licked each spot that was revealed.

One afternoon on the boat she was licking my cock. I was getting very hard and worked up. I have not come in a month, so it does not take much to get me to the edge. I also really needed to pee. Suddenly, I felt like something was letting loose and I frantically pulled out of her mouth and grasped my cock hard and said “I really have to pee!”. I was surprised to see that the few drips that escaped were not pee, but cum! I certainly did not cum, so maybe it was a ruined orgasm.

The last night there, I dressed up in garter belt, thigh high black stockings, bra and black women's flat shoes. I did the dishes and packed some of our luggage. T then took me into the spare bedroom and had me take of the bra. I don't remember exactly the sequence of events, but she used velcro straps to secure me to the bunk bed ladder and used the palm stem to whip my ass and thighs. She inserted a jewelled metal plug up my ass, then had me sit in a chair and tied my wrists and ankles to the chair.

She put the clothes pins on my cock and balls, with two on my nipples. Then she placed the palm stem whip in my upturned bound hands and said she was going outside to look for meteor showers.

She left me there tied to the chair, covered in clothes pins and grinding on the plug up my ass, for however long she wished. She came back in five minutes, I really hoped she would leave me there to suffer for even longer. She untied me from the chair, put me up against the ladder and whipped my ass and thighs again. Then she had me turn around and beat the front of my thighs, my inner thighs, my cock and even a few smacks to my balls that had me groaning and writhing.

The next day I had numerous red welts on my thighs; back, front and inner. Not a mark on my leather ass though, darn! She was appalled to see what she had done to me, but I was thrilled to see that she had left her marks on my body and thanked her profusely. In a few days, they were big, dark bruises.

It was a great trip altogether. I got shaved, wore panties all week, got a new nighty, dressed up like her slave wife one night, got my ass whipped, wore a little monokini to swim in and got clothespinned.

A few things I had hoped for that did not happen: I did not wear the white one piece crochet bathing suit and I did not get whipped with her leather belt.

Months ago, I had hoped that we might renew our vows and take new vows of my submission to her and her ownership me, but we did not do that. Maybe someday. Considering what we are doing now compared to a few years ago, who knows what we will be doing a few years in the future.

ps:  While she was whipping me she was telling fantasies about me being tied to the post at the end of the pier, naked, and being whipped in public, including allowing other people to whip me. What a hot fantasy! Then she also told a fantasy about using a fish hook and piercing my nipple with it. Wow! That is a very hot fantasy for me, maybe someday it will happen. I would so love to have her put hooks in my nipples, then pull them up with a fishing line.

bound to the bed

Another evening at home with no kids in the house and T asked if I wanted to watch a movie. Not really I said, seems like a waste of good alone time. Last weekend was the same, great opportunities and nothing happens. I admit I was feeling frustrated and a little cranky. I can happily go for weeks and months without orgasm, but total lack of any activity leaves me feeling very unfulfilled.

So, I apparently let on that I wanted some sex play and T suggested watching some home videos we had made many years ago. I jumped up and ran to get my laptop! The first was one that she made for me while I was not home and included her playing with her breasts and nipples, very aggressively!! She scratched, pinched, pulled, bound, clothespinned, slapped, whipped and finally dripped candle wax on her breasts and nipples. The video ends as I walked in the door to find her dripping wax on her bound breasts. The next one I returned the favor and did a cock and ball torture session including lots of bondage and clothespins.

After watching these we were both in the mood for some real sex and moved to the bedroom. We cranked up the heat and got naked. I had bought a set of under mattress restraints a few months before. I had introduced them to T by cuffing myself to the bed before she entered the room. Turns out she had other things in mind and was annoyed that I had done this myself and that I was spending money on sex toys. I had hoped since then that just maybe she would let us use them and was very surprised that she now told me to get the restraints out from under the mattress. She told be to lay down with my head toward the foot of the bed and cuffed me spread eagle on the bed. I was anxious to see what she planned to do then and was very happy when she sat on my face and placed her hot, wet pussy on my mouth.

What happened then we are wondering?  I don't know.  This was a little over a month ago and that's all I had time to write. That's one of the reasons I started this blog, to keep a journal of these great sex acts that I would otherwise forget.  

I am sure that great sex ensued, she likely had an orgasm, I most likely was not allowed.

I do remember now that I spent the night with at least two of the restraints binding my arm and leg to the bed. I didn't want to disturb her during the night when I got up to pee, so released myself and them tethered myself to the bed upon my return.

It was great!

Candlelit afternoon delight

We were getting ready for bed on Saturday night and I knelt, naked, before my wife and took her socks off. I rubbed her feet, then kissed them. I started to become erect as I sucked her toes. She told me to stand in front of her and she fondled my cock and balls. As she was doing that she was gently scratching me with her finger nails. She began scratching my chest and was enjoying making long red stripes from my neck to my thighs. I was enjoying this too! She told me to turn around and she stood behind me and scratched my back. Of course that led to scratching my ass, leaving what I am sure was a very interesting pattern of red stripes. She reached around in front and scratched my belly, then my hard cock.

She sat on the end of the bed and took my cock in her mouth. She pinched my scrotum and I was thankful that she knows I really enjoy torture and pain to my balls.  I was surprised when I looked down and saw clothespins attached to my sack! That felt sooo good and she quickly laid back and spread her legs. I put my hard cock right where she wanted it. I was so aroused and hadn't had an orgasm in about 4 weeks, so I was ready to cum in less than a minute. I didn't have permission to come and I wanted to maintain my hormone level so that I could be of good service to her the next day so I pulled out. She got the Hitachi magic wand and put it to good use. I put several fingers inside her hot pussy as she brought herself to a great orgasm. Then she was ready to settle down to sleep, while I settled down to bed with a hard throbbing cock, but that was okay because I planned to serve her and hopefully be dominated the next day while we had the house to ourselves.

Next day, my wife was busy all day. No dominance, no sex while we were home alone. By the time we went to bed late that evening I was frustrated, disappointed and pouting. I did mention that I had hoped to do something that day and was feeling very frustrated that she didn't have any time for me.

The next day she called me at work and asked if I wanted to get some take out and bring it home for lunch. I didn't want to get my hopes up as we ate lunch. After we ate she asked if I was interested in some play. Oh Yes!!!

We went to the living room and I stoked up the wood stove so we could get naked comfortably. She undid my pants and pulled them off me. She played with my cock some, then told me to bend over the wood trunk/coffee table. She started spanking ass and I was happy. She then told me to stay right there and went to get something. When she came back she used a wet wipe to clean my ass hole well. It was cold and wet and this was something very new as she had never wiped my ass before. It was rather embarrassing as I was bent over with my ass up in the air.

I didn't know why she was prepping me like that, but found out soon enough as a hot spot hit my upper thigh. Hot wax dripping from a candle! This was totally unexpected, but she is always surprising me.

The drips of wax proceeded up my ass crack and really stung when the first few hit right on my wide spread ass hole. After the first few though it felt wonderful and it felt like she was completely coating and filling my puckered hole. This was a long held fantasy of mine, to have my ass plugged with hot wax. She was only using a tea candle, so the wax supply was limited. After the candle was all dripped on my ass she had me stand up and feel what it was like to have the wax spreading my ass.

My cock was dripping precum and she wanted a fucking. She took my place bent over the trunk and I slid my hard cock into her hot, wet cunt. It felt soo good and she told me to fuck her hard. This time I managed to last a few minutes at least before she told me to cream her pussy as I pounded her.

I had a roaring climax and pumped a months worth of cum into her.

The tough part after that was putting my clothes back on and trying to stay awake after I went back to work. It was certainly a great candlelit afternoon delight!

No Sex for you until then!

No Sex for you until then!

My loving wife was sitting on the couch talking on the phone with her sister when she discovered a mouse dropping. We live in a 100 year old house in the country, it happens. But she hates mice after they have destroyed so many things and she called out to me that I must take care of them. Then she said there would be no sex until I caught 10 mice. She told her sister this and she thought it was very funny. She did eventually suggest that it would sound nicer to say I could have sex when I caught them, more positive attitude. I was very surprised that she would mention something like no letting me have sex to her sister.  She assured her that she has gotten many things done around the house using this method. This is as close as she has come to sharing with anyone that she controls my sex and orgasms.

So far I have only nailed one today after setting out 6 traps. I am a little concerned that I didn't get more the first day. This may take a while!

She gave me the same challenge a year or so ago and that time she offered the reward that she would torture my cock and balls with clothespins, the same number of pins as mice caught. I eventually earned 14 pins to be worn on my balls, nipples and erect cock while she had an orgasm and I moaned in pain and denial.

She makes it hot

Haven't posted in ages, but that doesn't mean that we haven't been having some great sex at times.  Just not time or inclination write about it.
Last two memorable experiences were:
At home on  a lazy Sunday morning.  T had me eat her while she was sitting at the edge of the bed. Then she had me stand in front of the mirror, whipped me all over with her belt.  Blindfolded me and placed 11 clothespins on my cock and balls.  Had me get down on my knees, then bend down in slave position with my hands extended out on the floor in front of me.  She then sat on my upraised ass and used the Hitachi magic wand to bring herself to orgasm, her pee running down my ass crack as she came.
AFter that she used the vibrator on my balls, then ground it into my wide spread ass hole. No coming for me though.

Two weeks later at a hotel where I was looking forward to hot hotel sex. She didn't feel good and it didn't happen till the last morning.  I put the ball stretcher on my nuts, she used the vibrator to bring herself to orgasm, then used it on me.  That thing is just relentless and I knew I couldn't stop from coming.  I asked if she wanted me to come and she asked how did I want it?  In her hand? I said yes, in your hand and make me eat it.  It was a mind blowing orgasm and I licked my cum from her hand as she smeared it over my face.

hot hotel monkey sex part 2

The next day we needed to get going fairly early so there wasn't much sex play in the morning. It was a very busy day ending with dinner out with our college kids. I usually don't drink when I am hoping for a big sex night, but it was a drinking type of place and I was not planning on much that night since I knew that TW would be tired, so would I, and I was looking forward to the really big sex marathon to be the next morning, so I did have a beer.

I did mention someplace along the way as we were driving that I had brought something of hers to play with, and it wasn't her panties, but I would show her when we got back to the hotel. That something was her wide leather belt which I showed her when we got back to the room.

She got in bed and said she wanted me to lotion her legs again. I gladly did so, but it only got me hornier and her more relaxed. Eventually she was ready to go to sleep and I asked if it would be okay if I put on some bondage. Of course she didn't care as long as I didn't bother her. I put on the gates of hell, tied a rope harness around my chest, leather wrist cuffs, a chinese bondage rope tying my hands together and put on the nipple suckers. I got out all my whipping implements and set them in easy reach, just in case. Then I crawled into bed with my head under the covers as close as I could to her crotch. After a few minutes she rolled over and placed her ass by my face, which actually worked better. She fell asleep soon and after about half an hour I was feeling rather claustrophobic under there and crawled out. I slept all night with all that on, although the nipple suckers did get rubbed off eventually.

The next morning I got up and prepared breakfast in bed for TW and served it while naked. After we finished eating she asked me for the belt. I placed the handful of belt, floggers and crop on the bed. She said “Wow, you are really ambitious!”. She took the belt and told me to stand with my back to her. She said that I needed to be punished for bringing her belt without permission. It wasn't much of a reason for a whipping, but it would do! She whipped my ass quite well, then told me to turn around and spread my legs so she could whip my thighs. She belt striped my thighs, then started whipping my cock and balls. She was using an up swing to catch my balls and cock on the same stroke, then on my cock head on the down stroke. It was the hardest she had ever beat my cock and balls, the pain was delicious but it was just about all I could take then.

She was feeling rather dominant now and had me kiss her feet. I was thinking about what she had talked about the day before and just had to put her toe up my nose. This really got me going and I was frantically licking and sucking her toes, then managed to get a toe up each nostril while I sucked on her big toe. This basically cut off my breath and I kept it up until I was desperate to breath and took a gasping breath. So I was bringing this on my self and the only thing keeping me from breathing was opening my mouth, but it was still hot thinking I was being suffocated by her toes as I fantasized about her plugging my nose with her toes and planting her foot firmly across my mouth. The ultimate control, that of my breathing. What incredible trust that entails. Maybe someday, she will do that to me.

I'm not sure now what happened next but TW fixed the ropes tied around my chest since they had gotten loose. She did a much better chest harness, nice and tight that left red marks when it came off later. Then she had me lie on my back on the bed and checked to see what I had in my “toy” bag. She pulled out a vice I made with 2 two foot long dowels that clamp together with a bolt and wing nut at each end. She also got out the Aneros prostate massager and a handful of clothespins. She asked if I was up to some anal and I said “oh Yes!”. She also got another length of rope which she used to tie my hands spread up to the headboard and my feet spread wide to the foot of the bed. I don't know if she has ever tied me spread eagle like this before, but this was really hot and I told her I liked it a lot.

She put a couple clothespins on my scrotum, then started using the floggers on me from my chest to my thighs, with plenty of time in between flogging my cock and balls.

She then untied my feet and had me pull my legs up so she could get at my ass. She stroked the plug around my ass hole for a while then lubed me up and slowly inserted the plug. It felt terrific and I moaned with pleasure as she slowly stroked it in and out.

She got the riding crop and used that on me, knocking one of the nipple suckers off and giving my balls some good swats as she knocked the clothespins off them. She placed a clothespin on my nipple and I groaned in pain.

Now she put the vice on the base of my cock and balls and tightened the screws. I told her she could make it as tight as she wanted to as she put it on me in a vertical direction between my legs. My cock and balls were hard and swollen sticking out from the clamp. She pulled and twisted it from side to side. TW is so creative, she continues to surprise me after all these years. Now she took a rope and tied it to the nub at the end of the aneros, tied it around the vice at each and then put the loose end in my mouth for me to hold between my teeth. I could pull my head up and yank my cock and balls and tug the plug in my ass. This was mind absolutely mind blowing, but my wonderful wife then managed to climb on top of me and bury my engorged cock in her wet hot pussy. I was so far gone, I don't think anything could have topped that moment as she told me to come now as she rode me like a cowgirl. And I came like I have never come before. Absolutely incredible!

I don't know what happened next, but somehow TW managed to climb off me and we got all the ropes disengaged and the vice off my parts. Of course she had not come yet and she got started by putting her tits in the vice, looking very good I might add. Then she got the magic wand humming and I finger fucked her to her well deserved orgasm.

And THAT is what I call Hot Hotel Monkey Sex!!!!

Caught and Punished

We were just getting ready for bed when T dumped a load of laundry on the bed. “let's get this folded before bed” she said, “and take your clothes off first”. This was sounding like more fun than chore as I quickly stripped. She turned to me with the locking leather strap. “Put this on”. I fumbled with it as I was already starting to get hard. After I finally got it buckled in place she told me to put the nipple suckers on too.

I did a nice job of folding her panties making sure to kiss each one. She gave me reinforcement by spanking my bare ass each time I kissed a pair. She had pointed out in the past a time that I had left a pair inside out and I was a bad boy this day as I intentionally left one pair like that this time. I wondered what she would think when she found that pair, hoping it might earn me a punishment.

By the time we got done folding the spanks had resulted in my having a nice erection which she thought should be put inside her. I obliged by doing just that and giving her a good fucking. Somewhere along the way the strap came off. T apparently thought I was deserving an orgasm and gave me permission to do so and I enjoyed a good one.

A week later we had just gotten showered in the morning when I entered the bedroom to see T with a shirt on but no panties yet. This was unusual so I sort of waited to see if I might get to kiss her pussy good morning. Then I noticed the inside-out panties on the bed along with her wide leather belt. Could it be that she intended to punish me for my transgression? “What do you see there?”, she asked.

“Inside-out panties?” I said, “and your belt”.

“Bend over the bed”. I did so and she gave me about a dozen smacks with it. I stood up and told her I was sorry for doing her panties improperly. Then I confessed that I had done it on purpose to see if she would notice and punish me. I admitted that I enjoyed the “punishment” that I had brought upon myself. “Bend over again, you haven't had enough”. She gave another dozen stripes on the ass, then told me to stand up. My cock was hard and streaming pre-cum. She used the belt to whip my cock about 20 times. Then she wiped the precum off on me.

“I really would like to come now” she said, but our daughter was downstairs and she was worried that she might come up. I offered to go make sure that she stayed there so T could enjoy her time with the magic wand. I did and she apparently made the most of it.

The next day she asked me to put lotion on her legs when we got in bed. I did so and noticed that she wasn't wearing any panties. That got me started but I was also just getting aroused stroking her legs and fondling her knees. My erection was growing and finally she spread her legs and told me to put that thing inside her. It felt great to be inside her sweet pussy. I told her that I had enjoyed my “punishment” the day before. She started talking about different little scenes related to laundry and punishments and general kinky play including some really hot ones with me hanging her laundry on the line while naked. She really got me going when she mentioned the time she had me outside naked and laying over the doghouse with my nipples grinding on the shingles as she flogged me ass. I was really having a tough time holding off from coming as she fantasized about sending me out to hang her panties on the clothesline with the necessary clothespins attached to my body. I would certainly be hanging them up as quick as I could to get the pins off.

Then T said that I had been good lately and that she wanted me to have a good come. I did just that and had a roaring orgasm.

After I recovered somewhat though I mentioned that she hadn't come, but she said she didn't need to come every time, and that it was more my goal than hers. So true, but still I owe her one or 2 or ...

laundry service

I was ready to leave for work recently when TW called down the stairs and asked if I could do a favor for her.  "Of course dear" I said, thinking that if we had a real female led, femdom relationship she would tell be what to do rather than asking.  I would be happy to serve her.  Little did I know.
She asked me to bring the small basket of clothespins from the front porch upstairs.  This was curious.
When I entered the bedroom she told me (not asked) to take my pants off. The she told me that there were towels in the washer that needed to be hung on the line.  She then took 6 clothes pins and placed them on my cock and balls and sent me on my way. She was nice enough to say that I could move any of them that got too painfull.  I hang the towels and the only pins I moved were some that became loose.  I came back upstairs and she removed the pins, kissing and licking each spot she removed from.  I was hot and hard and she told me to get dressed and go to work.  Oh, I love this woman!

Locked for love

I”ve been reading about male chastity along with tease and denial for awhile. The blogs I have read have generally presented this activity as being an overall positive experience for the couples involved, although one well known writer on the topic warns to “be careful what you wish for”.

Many people, including my wife, don't understand how a male who generally strives to achieve orgasm as often as possible would wish to be denied this pleasure. I am sure that some of the attraction to this activity is gained with age. We learn that it is more enjoyable to prolong the pleasure over time rather than rushing to the finish.

We have had a few scenes recently that included some orgasm denial play and I have really enjoyed it. One night I told her that I would find it very sexy to have her enjoying her orgasm while I was receiving no pleasure, or even suffering some pain in contrast to her pleasure. She obliged me by tying my hands together, placing several clothes pins on my scrotum and then enjoying her magic wand vibrator while I was lying next to her naked and in pain. After she was done she teased me about whether or not I should come then. I kind of wanted her to say that I couldn't and would have to go without till at least the next day but she thought I had suffered enough. I say too much is not enough!

On our anniversary trip to an out of town hotel I was determined that she would come before me and do so at least 3 times before I would. In the past she would many times not orgasm at all during a sexual scene and 3 times might take awhile this time. I started by saying that I really would like to relive our island vacation where she tied me up to the bathroom door and shaved my pubes. She thrilled me by doing just that. She gave a very clean shave while I watched in the mirror. When she was done I said that she should go masturbate while I “hung out” in the bathroom. She left me strung up there to listen while she had a noisy orgasm on the bed with the Hitachi wand. After she let me down I ate her out to another orgasm before we went out to dinner. Unfortunately she wasn't feeling well after dinner so I was chaste till the next day when we took care of her orgasm and didn't have time for mine until after breakfast. But then I had a few more during the next few days and she had none!

Locked at Last!

She joined me for an overnight at a hotel this week where I was attending a conference. Yeah, time for some hot hotel monkey sex! I brought along a bag of “toys”, just in case. The first night I did some kinky solo play, but refrained from orgasm so I could save it for her.

When we finally got to the room the next night she was feeling tired, I was feeling very horny, but resolved to not press on the kinky sex if she was not interested. She mentioned whether I had any new toys and joked about the first time she said “show me something new” during our dating days and I pulled a rope out of my bag. I did have some new toys including a leather cock and ball strap complete with a small lock. It was the one thing I had really wanted to present to her, hopefully earlier in the day so she could have put it on me before we went to dinner. I went and got the strap from my bag and brought it to her, showing her the lock after she had seen the rest. I said this is for locking up “your” cock and balls. When the lock is on they will belong to you. She did seem to find this rather appealing and had me place the strap on so that nothing would get pinched in the process. She put the lock on and we kissed lovingly. Then she said she knew what she wanted and spread her legs. I said that I love your pussy and want to kiss it all the time. I ate her like a man possessed, just could not get enough of having my face in her wet snatch and giving as much pleasure as possible.

While I was pleasuring her she talked about what she could do while I was locked up including making me wear it while we went to breakfast in the morning. After she came she said she was ready to sleep and that I would have to wait till morning. She did tell me to take off the strap for the night since it was pretty tight, but I was to replace it as soon as I woke in the morning.

I was very aroused, but it was late and I did get to sleep soon. When I woke up in the morning I retrieved the strap from under my pillow and locked it on. T woke up and found me already locked and ready. Unfortunately I had to go to a meeting in the morning so we didn't have time for prolonged play.

She got me good and hard and headed for the shower. I asked if I could take the strap off before showering since the water wouldn't do the little lock any good. I was planning on putting it back on for breakfast, but that great big shower stall was too much fun and we ended up fucking in there and she let me come then. It was very hot, but I was really hoping that she would be keep me aroused all day in hopes of a release that evening.

Valentines chocolate

Been waaaay to long since I wrote anything, haven't caught up on the Hitachi magic wand on our anniversary, many birthday spankings, sex on the sailboat in the V.I., getting shaved at the hotel.
So I'll just start with the most recent and try to catch up eventually!

It was Valentines week and T had been making some home made chocolates. We had joked about spreading that melted chocolate on our bodies. That evening, after the youngest child had finally gone to bed, T said she was going to change into something more comfortable. She returned with her robe on and opened it to show me her chocolate covered nipples! Yummy, I wasted no time at getting one of them in my mouth and licking and sucking that chocolate. By the time I got done cleaning off the second one, she was trying to pull my shirt off over my head. I peeled off the long sleeve shirt and kept on the t shirt. I had prepped for this event by wearing some old underwear that was due to be retired since it was full of holes. I hoped she would take the hint and rip it off me! Well, she picked up on that clue quickly and expanded the big hole on the back of the shirt.
I peeled off my jeans so she could see that my underwear was ready for the same type of shredding. I had worn my favorite leather belt and she pulled it out of the belt loops, all right, she was picking up on all the hints! T then started expanding the holes in my tattered jockey shorts. She also tore long narrow strips of fabric out of the t shirt and used these to tie up my nuts. I helped her get this nice and tight since she was worried about hurting me and that's just what I wanted.
She managed to tie several pieces of the shirt very tightly around my chest, nicely framing my nipples and making my chest bulge like mini titties. She knelt down and sucked and licked my cock and balls, which were bulging in their bonds.
When she stood back up I reached for the belt and began using it on her ass. I wrapped my left arm around her shoulders and hugged her to me and used the belt to whip her ass, thighs and back. It was really hot to be hugging her lovingly yet holding her in place for the whipping. We talked about it afterward and she also really enjoyed that concept.
I eventually gave the belt to her and asked to be warmed up. She used the belt all over my body, whipping my ass, thighs, belly, chest and back. Some of those strokes the belt really wrapped at the tip and I knew there were some welts that would last.

After a while she said maybe I'd like to see what I was doing and she knelt on the couch and presented her ass. I used that leather belt to stripe her ass nicely, then gave her some shots in the ass crack and up her crotch onto her hot pussy. I whipped her back and she raised up so that I had access to her breasts which also got some hot licks from the belt.
Her ass looked so hot that I had to lick it, so I knelt behind her and kissed and licked her hot ass cheeks. Then I spread her legs and licked her pussy. It was hard to get in there well at that angle, so I sat down on the floor and tipped my head back on to the couch cushion and pulled her pussy down onto my mouth. She rode my like this until my neck ached and so did her knees.
She got up, turned around and sat down and offered her self to me, but I had another game in mind.
I said, "Aren't there some clothes pins in the next room?" She said, you go get them, I'll stay here and masturbate. So I went and got the basket of pins. I said, "I'm going to take turns, putting one on me, then one on you." I put the first one on the bottom of my restrained scrotum. She thought I would put it on the same location for her and was surprised when I put on her breast. Now she would get to anticipate right to the last moment where it was going.
I continued placing those clothespins on both of us, up and down both sides of her labia, on my nuts, her breasts, my foreskin. Several times she said no that's too much when I tried places like her inner labia, clit hood or nipples. The last one I put on my lip, then went to do likewise with hers, but she said no that hurts too much so I took another one on my lip for her.


The whole time I was placing the pins she was rubbing her clit and working towards an orgasm, I was determined to wear the pins till she came and fortunately she did soon. I took off the pins from both of us, leaving the four that were on each side of my nipples for last. Anyone who has worn clothes pins for any length of time know that they usually hurt more taking off when the blood rushes back in. I said to T, "I want you to take these off my nipples, so that you inflict the pain of release." She stood and took them off, licking and sucking the blood back in as I gasped and groaned. AFter she removed the last one I asked her to suck my nipple hard, then to bite it!




It was sooo hot. My tightly tied balls were still straining for relief and she asked if I wanted to come now. I asked if she thought I should or not. She said do you really want to take a chance that I say no? I thought about it and said that was a somewhat scary concept, since after all this buildup I really wanted to, but the concept of having her control whether I could come or not was very exciting. She said let's go up to bed and see what happens. We gathered up our clothing and went upstairs, my bound balls rubbing against my thighs.

WE got into bed and she soon had me fucking her. She got out the Hitachi magic wand and started buzzing her clit with it, that meant she was going to come anyway. AS she panted toward orgasm, I struggled to control mine, determined to not let go unless she said I could. She started to come and I asked "May I come?", fortunately she managed to say yes, come now, and I did with a roar.

After we settled down some, I managed to release my aching purple balls, then collapsed into a deep sleep. When I woke in the morning, the t shirt strips were still wound tightly around my chest and there were some purple belt marks on my belly. Signs of a great night of hot sex!