Strapon sex

A week after the hotel weekend and we are at it again.  I had a  busy day out sailing and was fairly tired by time we got to bed.  We had some foreplay and were getting very horny when TW suggested I get out the strapon dildo that she had seen in my bag.  She thought maybe I could strap it on my head and use it to fuck her with my face.  That sounded great, but before I got too hard I wanted to demonstrate for her the way it was designed to be used as a sheath over my penis.  She liked that a lot and I fucked her to a great orgasm with the help of her magic wand.  Then we both went to sleep.

Next morning I made breakfast for her. Naked. Before I started she suggested that I restrain my balls, and I put on a ball harness.  Then she told me to put a butt plug in my ass too.  THis is very unusual for her. WE ran out of time and both had to start our day hot and aroused.  THat evening we had another round with the strapon, this time with her in the doggy position.  This thing is a few inches longer than I am, quite firm too and she got fucked deep and hard.  She was sore for a few days after this.  I confessed to her that I looked forward to the day when she would strap it on and fuck me.

In the week since that time, we have both been very busy.  We did have a very ordinary fuck this past weekend.  It was like sex in the past, regular intercourse, I came, she didn’t. 

The next day I was not horny, did chores all day and didn’t come on to her, pamper her or show any physical interest.  A day later she commented on this and indicated she kind of missed my attentions, even my puppy dog attempts to get her attention.  I told her that was what happens when I get to come and have a hormonal slump.  Will I get denied orgasm now?  I do crave sexual attention with orgasm denial but unfortunately it will more likely be just life as usual, with no hint of FLR.  I better start pampering her more!

Hot hotel monkey sex

Ah the long awaited weekend away.  I always pack numerous sex toys for such rare occasions and this time TW had even talked about doing so, therefore I packed a lot of toys.  At the last minute I spotted a package of hot dogs and cocktail franks in the cooler we were taking and went back to pack a separate bag with my dildos.  I recently bought a unisex strapon which has a hollow dildo for the man's penis to be placed in (prior to erection!).  I hopefully brought this and of course TW's magic wand vibrator.

After settling in to the hotel in the late afternoon we decided to take a quick shower to freshen up before going out for some dinner.  After the shower TW had me eat her pussy for a few minutes, then she indulged me with some flogging with the small flogger.  This was a nice start, but I really wanted more and offered her my belt and bent over.  She gave me a wonderful whipping on my ass and back, then had me stand up and worked over my chest including a long series of whips on my lower belly.

It was fairly dark in the room with the curtains closed and she couldn't see all the wonderful red stripes she was leaving.  She was somewhat shocked when she saw them in the light, but I loved them.

She had me put on a ball strap and get dressed before we went to dinner.  Dinner was good, but uneventful, although the long walk down the street after dinner was interesting with my balls all trussed up.  We found an ice cream shop with amazing flavors and had a dish of ice cream.  We sat toward the back of the shop near the bathrooms and ate our ice cream. 

They had a very interesting mural on the wall with some provocative drawings.  TW came up with a little fantasy story about taking the candle from the table into the bathroom and dripping it on me.  Several minutes later she went to the bathroom.  I had my back to the shop and was wondering if she gestured for me to come how I could sneak the candle with me.  It was a heady thought and I didn't know if I could follow through but secretly hoped she would as a test of my obedience.  Unfortunately, she didn't like the conditions of the loo well enough to want to have any sex games and she didn't call me in.

When we got back to the room, she cleaned up while I laid out the contents of my toy bag, but not the ass toys.  There were a lot of things from cuffs and ropes to nipple clamps, floggers, crop and nipple suckers. She chose a pair of over the door cuffs and strung me up from the closet door.  She also had me put on a ball stretcher harness.  She flogged the front of me, then used the crop, but was nervous about the slapping sound being heard.  Eventually she took me down.  It had been less than a week since my last orgasm, but after all the hours of foreplay I was ready to come soon.  When she used the majic wand on my cock I totally lost it and came unintentionally.  It was a fairly intense orgasm, even if I did not want it to happen yet, and felt like it was somewhat ruined since I couldn't really let loose and enjoy it.

The next morning we slept late, then had some leisurely sex.  I had been looking forward to being denied and horny all weekend, but since I had already got mine the night before I wasn’t as inspired to have TW deny me.  She wanted to have me come in her with a good pounding fuck and that’s what I did.

Then we went sightseeing for the day.  It was a long busy day and we were too tired to do anything that night.   WE had lots of great sex plans including shaving her pubes, ass play with the hot dogs and cocktail franks and all the other toys.  Unfortunately it was a very busy weekend and there was no more sex.

Fifth week and finale finally

Yes, five weeks of orgasm denial.  I could have had my release sooner, but after 3 weeks, it was only one more week for a full month, and then would only be another week until we are going for a long weekend away at a hotel and that means some hot hotel monkey sex.  Worth waiting another week for at this point and go for 6.  But no, during a hot sex session on week 4, day 6, things got too exciting as were fucking, I tried to pull out and stop, but it was too late.  Ejaculation was happening and it was not the roaring orgasm I had planned on to cap off my five weeks of tease and denial.  "Oh shit" I said, " That's not how this is supposed to happen!".
T was understanding and the next morning we had a long leisurely morning, including some more great sex. I was nearing the edge and she was telling stories about the hot things we would do at the hotel.  It was all too much.  I didn't quite ask for permission to come, but did ask if she wanted it, and with her affirmative answer, I had that roaring orgasm.  That was more like it.
So, that was the great orgasm denial marathon, I never would have thought six months ago that I would willingly go that long without coming and enjoy repeatedly being brought to the edge in the meantime.  Does this set the new standard to attain after formerly going 2 weeks?  I think this next period will only be a week.
There hasn't been any sex play in the few days since then, only some talk about what fun we will have this weekend and that we will need to pack some special toys.  Should be fun!!!

4 weeks

After several runs of 2 weeks of orgasm denial, I'll be at 4 weeks without orgasm tomorrow.  WE just got past two weeks this time when I sent a quote from a chastity website to my wife.  That evening she inquired as to whether I was spending time at work looking at this like this.  I sheepishly admitted that I was and that it really is a problem that I needed help with.  THe next day she gave me a reminder in the morning and then gave me a small padlock from my cock collar to carry in my pocket as a reminder.  She told me if I was tempted that I should take the lock out and switch it to a different pocket and get back to work.  I did quite well for the next few days.  I happened to read a magazine article on day 4 about the problem of porn addiction.  It recommended that the woman work with her man and help give him extra attention to keep his mind off the porn. It also indicated that it would take at least 2 weeks of effort to make a change.  That was at two and a half weeks and she was ready to reward me for being good at the end of the week.  But I thought that I should really wait till at least the end of 2 weeks of behaving on the computer before my reward.  So here I am at a month of orgasm denial.  Some times I am crazy horny and occasionally I think this may be what it is like when we just don't have sex much anymore.
Right now, I really want it, but it has been a challenge that I feel proud of making it to this point of.

Later Edit:  Wrote the above in a hurry last night.  My loving wife has unfortunately got her period right now and she is looking forward to a good fucking when she is done.  That means no orgasm likely for me today on the 4 week date.  She hinted that maybe I will get a reward this weekend if things aren't too busy.  We are going away on a long weekend together on Sept 8.  Great time for some hot hotel sex!  She warned that she might make me wait until then which would put me out to  almost six weeks.  Yikes!  Be careful what you wish for!  She reminds me that this was all my idea and yes I do love it.  Thanks for the comment and I'll see if it gets easier after 1 month.  Last night she promised to tease me and keep me aroused every day this week.  Started off last night after a few sexless days by her telling me to "put something" on my balls and place the suckers on my nipples and then give her a backrub.  While I massaged I brought up the topic of some photos that she found on my camera that I had taken while at the beach last week.  Several were of a very tan young woman in a bikini.  They weren't close up but it was obviously the subject of the photos.  I apologized for doing this and suggested that this might be something I should be punished for.  I told her that I thought corporal punishment would be in order, hoping for a serious spanking or whipping.  She thought I might enjoy that too much and that not allowing me any attention from her would be more punishment than doing something physical. Darn!  AFter a while she rolled over and had me give her a front rub.  I admit that it was difficult to rub anyplace other than her breasts.  During that I was grinding my cock and balls against her feet.  She got out her magic wand and had a great orgasm while I humped in vain.
Then she rolled over and offered her knees for me to grind against as she drifted off to sleep.
This morning she again rolled over towards me with her knees up and I accepted this as an invitation to grind.  Eventually I got to the point of really crushing my balls against her knees and reveling in the pain.  I told her this was an effective method for a masochist to get their pain. As I got out of bed, I knelt down and kissed her knees in appreciation.

Fantasy berry picking

So, it's been a week and a half and we've been traveling and camping for half that time.  Not too conducive to sex games with the youngest daughter and friend along and sleeping close by.  A few teases, some knee humping during the night.  One night as I ground my balls against her knees, TW spun a quick fantasy about the berry picking we would be doing the next day.  She said imagine that you are picking blackberries (very thorny bushes) wearing chaps with your naked cock and balls exposed to the thorns.  The next day as we toiled in the patch, sweating with long pants and sleeves, she said "imagine you are wearing just chaps".  As the backs of my hands were all scratched up it was an interesting thing to imagine.  When we got done, TW showed me her forearms and said that at one point there were trickles of blood on them from the thorns.  I thought of my upper thighs, cock and balls and white ass scratched and bleeding like that.  Pretty intense, then I thought of her soft white breasts subjected to the same, yow!.  That night she mentioned whipping me with a slender branch, "what do they call that" she asked.  "A switch" I replied and thought of those stories I've read years ago of the Victorians and the birches they used to inflict brutal whippings.  Yes, some interesting fantasies.  For now.

2 weeks - howling at the moon

Is this the new standard?  2 weeks between the orgasms that I am allowed.  Oh, I have gone that long before, but this is 2 weeks of teasing, hot sex including intercourse, without being allowed to come.  I love it.
Yes, after that last post I did not come that night.  She was tired so nothing happened. But the next night we played and the whole following day was one long tease session and I finally was granted release on Sunday.
Then another two weeks including some super hot sex sessions before I got to come again a few days ago.
After being permitted orgasm during intercourse on Tuesday morning we had some really hot sex that evening.  I did dishes while my balls were tied to the kitchen cabinets. Then TW lead me by my ball harness outside naked and attached my ball harness to the dog run and made me stand with my back pressed into the rough bark of a large tree while she went back inside to take a shower. There was a full moon shining and she said I could bark or howl if I liked what I saw through the bathroom window.  It was hilarious when I barked at her bare ass (a full moon) and our dog in the house started barking back at me!
After her shower she came out and used a small flogger on my body front and back. It was dark enough that she couldn't see if I was getting red and she gave my ass a good hard flogging.  Then she lead me to the dog house and bent over it and told me to fuck her.  She pulled up her shirt in the front and let her nipples grind on the roof shingles.  After I had fucked her for a few minutes she changed places with me and bent me over the house and ground my hard cock and my nipples into the shingles as she flogged me then pressed down on me with her full body weight.
Then we went into the house and up to bed where she had me eat her pussy.  Finally she used the magic wand vibrator to bring herself to a squirting orgasm after which she finally released my bound balls and went to sleep with my balls crushed against her knees.

I'll tell you when you want to come

Yes, TW has been taking to the FLR more all the time.  We were at a wedding last weekend and we got separated in the crowd at the reception for the first 20 minutes or so.  When we got together she told me that I was to tell her where I was going if I left her for the rest of the evening.
She was away for three nights last week and told me that I should think about sex with her as much as possible, particularly when I was in places that usually did not involve sex.  So I thought of her as I scrubbed the kitchen floor on my hands and knees, naked, balls bound and dragging a full 20 oz bottle from them and my ankles hobbled.  And with a riding crop to my ass when I spilled water.
Or naked in her garden weeding.
I masturbated often, to the edge without orgasm, until I accidentally went too far.  I brought myself to the edge and thought if I squeezed my balls it might stop the cum, but instead it gave me a mindblowing orgasm.

I told TW of my accidental cum when she returned and "suggested" that I needed to be disciplined.  She thought that teasing and denial for longer was appropriate since I desperately wanted to have fulfilling sex with her after her absence.  But what I really want is for her to take control and deny orgasm.
She did that on our last night together before I left for 3 nights at scout camp. She had said before the wedding that she expected to let me come before I went away.  I really wanted to as we had some great foreplay all afternoon, but I hoped that she would make it go longer.

That evening we had some great sex, oral for both of us, intercourse, and eventually she pushed me away and said "no coming for you!"  I thanked her for taking control and told her that I really enjoyed her taking ownership of my cock and balls and hoped that she would lock them up often.

I'm now back from my 3 nights away.  My last orgasm was 11 days ago when I had the accident.  The last time with TW I'm not sure, but has been at least 14 days since she allowed me to come.  Will I come today or in a few days?  She will tell me when.

laundry service

I was ready to leave for work recently when TW called down the stairs and asked if I could do a favor for her.  "Of course dear" I said, thinking that if we had a real female led, femdom relationship she would tell be what to do rather than asking.  I would be happy to serve her.  Little did I know.
She asked me to bring the small basket of clothespins from the front porch upstairs.  This was curious.
When I entered the bedroom she told me (not asked) to take my pants off. The she told me that there were towels in the washer that needed to be hung on the line.  She then took 6 clothes pins and placed them on my cock and balls and sent me on my way. She was nice enough to say that I could move any of them that got too painfull.  I hang the towels and the only pins I moved were some that became loose.  I came back upstairs and she removed the pins, kissing and licking each spot she removed from.  I was hot and hard and she told me to get dressed and go to work.  Oh, I love this woman!

Fake it!

Well, I haven't had a chance to write in a few weeks or so, but there has been some great sex action including some female control/led/dom.  After that last session where she fingered my ass hole till I came, I told her it was terrific and I owed her.  The next day I brought her flowers to let her know that I really enjoyed it.  Then she has had numerous orgasms to my few.  I have kissed and licked her pussy nearly every day before leaving for work, just to start her day off well.

Last night she came home from a 4 day trip out of town with our daughters.  She had told me that I should bring myself to the edge often and not come. ONe time though while I was trying to edge my self and stop the orgasm by squeezing my balls, I came anyway, really hard and loud. 
When we went to bed last night we were both very tired, but she came to bed without panties, usually an invitation.  She put her knees up in front of her and I responded by grinding my cock and balls against them.
I told her that I had missed her and her knees.  She asked if I had been able to hold off while she was away and I confessed that I had slipped up and come once.  She said that maybe I needed to be disciplined for that and I agreed that I should.  I had scrubbed the kitchen floor for her while she was away, naked, bound, and on my hands and knees.  She thought I should do that again as discipline. I agreed that I should and suggested that she might also deny my orgasm for some time.  She thought that would be interesting too.
After getting us all worked up, we agreed that we needed to get to sleep, kissed passionately and turned out the light. 
During the night I woke to find her sleeping face down, bare assed.  I couldn't resist giving her a kiss on the ass check when I returned from the bathroom and left it at that.  She made a little sound and then asked if I wouldn't like to hop on her right now?  I would and kissed her ass thoroughly as my hard on woke up, then I got behind her and slid my cock in her pussy.  I gave her a good fucking, but I certainly didn't want to come now since I was due for some denial.  She asked if I was close to coming and I gave a positive indication.
"Good", she said, "I want you to pretend you are coming and then stop."  Wow, that's a new one, and hard to comply with at this point, but I used every bit of my self control to pretend I was coming complete with hard fucking and moans and groans and neck biting.  Then I stopped.  AFter a moment she said "that was fun and now I could have you fuck me again right away!"  I don't know how long that would last, but she told me instead to try and go to sleep now.  I thought I would never get to sleep, but I did pulled out, rolled over and eventually did sleep. 
I'm looking forward to her teasing and finding out how long my disciplined denial will last.

Dommed, but not denied

Dommed, but not denied

I came home from work for lunch knowing that TW was home. I let her know in the morning that I was planning on it so she could be at least mentally prepared. The delicious aroma of homemade turkey soup awaited me as I entered the kitchen. We had a very nice lunch together after which she asked if I was interested in more that just lunch. I said that I was always interested and she went to “freshen up”. I thought I would make some points, and do some service to her by doing the dishes.

In a few minutes I went to the bedroom, she was done cleaning up and ready to move on. Time is limited so I proceeded to get naked and under the covers. It was a chilly, damp day so she got under the covers too and we snuggled together and tried to get warm. I spooned her from behind, but she said her feet were cold and put them on my legs. I got lower down in the bed and pulled her feet into my crotch and against my cock and balls. This should warm her feet and get me going. As she ground her feet against my balls my cock was starting to get hard.

TW said she wanted to try something she had been thinking about. She asked me if I wanted to do something new to follow her. I had no idea what she had in mind but told her I would be happy to follow her and try anything. She grabbed a towel and lead the way to the next room and put the towel on the floor in front of the couch. She sat on the couch and told me to kneel and take care of her feet.

I knelt down and took her foot in my hands and stroked and massaged it from toe to heel and top to bottom. Then I kissed and licked her toes. I sucked each toe and nibbled the whole bottom of her foot. I sucked her big toe like I was going down on a mini cock, then rubbed the bottom of her foot all over my face. I did the same with the other foot, worshipping her feet like a good submissive husband.

Then she pushed me back with her feet and put them in my crotch, rubbing up and down my erect cock and tumbling me nuts with her toes. She has very dexterous toes and she managed to hold my cock between two toes and slide the toe in between those two up and down my cock. Occasionally she would put her feet back in my mouth so I could lube them with my saliva.

Eventually the toe play made it's way back to my ass and she poked those talented toes all around my asshole. We had talked in the past about her putting a toe up my ass and I was all for it. She suggested I get some real lube so I ran to the bedroom and got the bottle. I wasn't sure how to position myself best for this and tried to spread my cheeks while in a somewhat sitting, leaning back position. This wasn't working too well since she could not see what she was doing so I flipped over on my knees and put my ass up in the air and my head down. Now she put some more lube on and poked her big toe in my ass. Even with short nails I didn't know if I could get it inside, but then she started putting a finger in me and it went in just fine.

I had a solo masturbation session a week before where I had been trying some ass play with my fingers and managed to get 3 and almost 4 fingers inside, so I knew that one was no problem. AS she worked her finger in my ass it felt terrific. She was stroking in and out, then grabbed my cock with her other hand and started masturbating me. Her hand was coated with slippery lube and felt amazing. In only a few minutes at most the feeling of being finger fucked up the ass and the smooth stroking of my cock was overwhelming. I told her I was going to come and she told me it was alright and to let go.

I came incredibly hard, spurting on to the towel. Then TW kept on gently stroking my cock and this was really intense. I've read about post orgasmic torture. Usually after intercourse, I like to grind in and out afterwards and enjoy the “aftershocks”, but this was way beyond that. I don't know how I managed to stay in place without being restrained. It was soo good, but such agony of incredible feelings at the same time.

I was ready to collapse and TW went to the bathroom to clean up her hands. I managed to stagger in after a few minutes and took a quick shower. I felt bad about not providing much sexual stimulation to her and not even close to an orgasm. I had to get back to work and left her with a very warm kiss and promises of “I owe you”.

GOOD morning

GOOD Morning!

Yes it was!  I went to bed last night and TW stayed up watching a movie.  I barely stirred when she came to bed, but I did notice that she was naked, which is unusual.  This morning I took advantage of her knees in front of me and placed my cock and balls upon them.  After a few minutes she rolled over and presented me with her bare bottom.  I played with her ass for a while then moved around to her pussy and fondled her until we were both getting hot.  She then reached over to her bed side table and pulled out 2 golf balls and gave them to me to place inside her.  I put the first one in my mouth to get it wet first, then slid it in her cunt.  I put the next one in my mouth, but this one I transferred direct from my mouth to her pussy, and then proceeded to eat her out.  Eventually I put several fingers in her too along with the golf balls.  While I was eating her out she was really getting in to it and trapping my head between her thighs and pulling my hair.  Then she put her feet on my back and held me down while she humped her pussy against my face.  This was almost as hot for me as the pussy eating was for her.  I was grunting and groaning and really getting in to it too.  She does like getting fucked and she told me to put my cock in her. I had no problem getting in there with the golf balls.  I screwed her for a while and tried really hard not to come.  She asked if I wanted to and I said that I was trying not too and that I was willing to hold off as long as possible if she wanted me to if that was 10 minutes, 1 hour, 10 hours or days.  She said that she would let me know if I could come.  Then she released me and told me to get up and lock the door just in case our daughter woke up.

Then TW told me to gather up all the belts I could find. She had a lot of them hanging up on hooks on the wall.  I laid them out on the bed along with a long scarf I found.  I wasn’t sure what she had in mind to do with the belts, but then she told me to stand in front of her and she started buckling them around me, starting at my chest and working down.  I exhaled and tried to give her room to make them as tight as possible.  There must have been 10 of them and she put them down my belly and the last three were around my thighs.  She said “you missed one”, and pointed to a heavy leather belt with no buckle that is on my side of the room.   I gave her that one and she started lightly slapping me with it.  She was smacking my cock with it and I was loving it. Next she told me to pull one of the golf balls out of her pussy and hold it in my mouth.  She got the Magic Wand vibrator and told me to whip myself with that belt while she masturbated.  I whipped my belly and my cock.  A few times I hit my balls, oh that hurt.  I didn’t want to make too much noise with the belt just in case the daughter could hear, so mainly I whipped my cock.  Finally she did come and I immediately went down on her.  She wanted me to get the other ball out of her pussy, but it wasn’t coming out so she had me lay on my back and she straddled my face, pinning my arms with her legs and plastered her pussy on my mouth.  Within moments, the fluid in her pussy was gushing out into my mouth.  I had to swallow face to keep from drowning. At one point I couldn’t keep up and it was running over my face and into my eye.  Finally she managed to bear down and push that ball into my mouth. 

TW said it was time for me to fuck her and for me to come, but she wanted me to keep that golf ball in my mouth when I did.  It felt so good to sink my tortured cock into her soaking wet cunt.  She rode my hard and I couldn’t move much with all the belts on me and the scarf tied around my wrists.  I didn’t last long and tried to mumble out a request for permission to come. She told me I could and as I exploded I was groaning out “Thank you Mistress”. This had to be one of the most incredible orgasms I have ever felt.

This was such a hot scene.  TW said she really enjoyed the fact that she was enjoying herself with the magic wand as I was suffering in pain with my whipping and that she wasn’t in a hurry to finish as she knew I enjoyed my pain.   This evening I told her that I had really enjoyed our morning.

We are both rather amazed at what hot sex we have been having in the last few months since I told her that I really want to please her and submit to her.  The great thing is that she is seeing the benefit to her and is enjoying a very active role.

Best foot forward

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Home alone journal and the follow up

I wrote this about a month ago. The first half I wrote as a journal during the day of the things I was doing while TW was away for the day.  Then I added some on at the end that is more of a blog post.  

My day of self inflicted tease and sexual torture, to keep me thinking of my beautiful sexy wife while she is away. 

We had some very hot sex last night, spinning a fantasy story about us being in a leather workers shop and what might happen there. I particularly liked the part where she gets the remote controlled vibrator, but when she asks for more they flog and crop me when she gets the vibe.  She really wants to come and we are required to stare at each other as I give her silent assent to take her pleasure at my expense. We have such good fantasies!

She finally used her vibrator and came, I did not.  I was wearing the leather velcro strap around my cock and balls. She asked if I wanted to finish, I said that I honestly wanted to stay horny through the night.  I was.  Kept the strap on all night.  Woke once during the night and was going down stairs to tend fire, saw that I had left the garage light on.  She said she would have me go out naked to turn off, but it is raining.  After tending the fire I took off my robe and went out naked in the rain to turn off the light.  I like her suggestions.

I woke up in the morning and pressed my swollen balls against her upraised knee and thought about what might happen if she pulled her knee upward.  It was scary but enticing.

After she woke we screwed for awhile.  She decided that she wanted to not come then either and remain horny for the day.  She sucked my left nipple very hard and gave me a nice crescent shaped hicky around my nipple.  Later I thanked her for it.  I ate her pussy as I humped her knee with my cock and balls. I ground my swollen balls hard against her knee and fantasized about her taking possession of the most delicate part of my body to use and abuse.  Then fucked the back of her bent knee, it was very hot.  We finally dragged ourselves off to the shower, I asked her to remove the strap for me so it wouldn't get wet.

Lunch time 2pm

Placed ball stretcher on balls, very difficult to apply.

Clipped double ended snap hooks on to hanging loops outside of my boxers.

Put clear suckers on my nipples with cinnamon chap stick.

Took my pants off while eating and hung gates of hell with heavy steel rings from the stretcher, sat on edge of chair with the weights hanging down.

Cock is semi erect and oozing precum leaving wet spots on my shorts

Brought more firewood to porch with wheelbarrow.  Having clanging rings hanging from your nuts makes you feel very slave-like, note to wife for future use.

Emptied dishwasher while naked and weights jangling.  Added weights of beaters and large whisk.

Spanked my ass with the large black spatula, punishment for not cleaning frying pan properly. Yes I washed spatula after.  Added cast iron frying pan to ball weights to carry it from sink to oven.  Wow, that's heavy, won't do that for long.

3pm

Removed ball stretcher and nipple suckers.  Nipples are big, balls ache, ass is pink. Cock dripping precum.

Tied thread around nipples, put 1” neoprene/velcro band around base of scrotum. Got dressed.

Ass was fading, whipped it good with a heavy leather belt, will feel that for a while.

Took out trash and went to pharmacy to get wipes.  Picked up a hair clip for genital/nipple torture at half price.

4pm Removed  ball strap. Used small black flogger on cock & balls. Tried out the hair clip, it has LOTS of little points inside that bite hard on the cock head.  Scrotum is less intense.  Masturbated to the edge of orgasm and stopped, licked up precum. Used riding crop very hard on belly and pubic mound, may leave some nice marks.

4:30  Strapped a wide leather belt around my waist over the red cropped area and buckled it very tight.

5:10 Belt has to come off, can't bend at the waist while working in garage.

6pm Stripped naked, flogged ass and inner thighs with large flogger.  Gagged myself with used panties and brought to edge of orgasm while flogging scrotum with large flogger.  Licked up precum and put on leather velcro strap.

Went to dinner.

7:20

Stripped naked for inspection.  Nice red marks on belly, a little redness on ass.  Surprisingly the strings are still tied on my nipples.  Spanked my ass hard with the rooster.  That thing packs a wallop, especially without a warmup.  Ass has a nice warm glow now.  Tied a crotch harness on with a lightweight green rope.  Red and green looks nice together.

Got dressed to look forward to the return of my wonderful wife.

Hope she is not too tired to appreciate this tonight.

If so that's ok, I'll stay horny for her for another night.

9:00 She finally got home.  By time everyone settled down and we had a moment to talk it was nearly 10 and as expected she was very tired.  I did tell her about this little journal I kept of my activities for the day so that I could remember everything and give her a complete accounting. She perked up enough to read it and found it very interesting.  We proceeded to talk for quite awhile.  She mentioned that she thought this was very interesting reading what I thought and did.  I decided this was the time to come clean with the fact that I have been doing just that in keeping a blog of our sexual activities for over 3 years.  She was of course very surprised, but also very interested. We talked for quite a while about sexual relationships.  I told her that I had learned a lot from blogs and that a lot of the change in my efforts recently were due to my interest in female led relationships, tease and denial and female domination.  I told her that I understood if it was not really her thing, but it is mine and I can not change.  She has enjoyed some of the benefits of this and really likes the part about being put on a pedestal and my doing all I can to please her.

Eventually though we were both very tired and I assured her that I would be fine going to sleep in this state even though I had kept myself at a high state of arousal for most of the day.  Our daughter was going to be away for the afternoon the next day and we could look forward to some great play time.

By now I had the rope harness on for close to three hours already and went to bed naked wearing only that.

I woke up horny several times during the night, the last time being at about 6:30 am. WE didn't have to get up till at least 8, so I just laid there thinking about sex.  Fantasized some about my balls being on her knee as she slept with her leg pulled up.  Thought it would be hot to have my crotch tied to her leg.  At 7 I proceeded to stealthily unwrap the rope harness from around my waist and crotch. Finally got it undone with just the section tied to my cock and balls left.  My plan was to as smoothly as possible tie my genitals to her knee.  I knew this would probably wake her, maybe I could at least have my nuts in place for any sudden moves of her leg.  Just as I started to make my move, she rolled over and took her leg away.  Darn!  But then she got up to go to the bathroom.  Time to take some action, I draped the loose end of the rope over her pillow.  When she returned, she knew what the rope was attached to right away.  She tugged on the rope, then fondled my cock and balls.  I told of my plans to attach myself to her leg.  She got on the bed facedown over some pillows and said she wanted that hard cock inside her.

I obliged for awhile, but we both wanted to hold off until later.  Finally, I pulled out and humped her leg, tying my cock to the back of her leg.  We were enjoying this, but I wanted to lick her pussy, so loosened up the rope and slid down her leg.  I was very surprised by her heel landing in my ass crack.  It actually felt pretty good as I humped and ground on it.  She told me to reach back and spread my ass wide and grind her heel.  It was feeling really good and then she told me to grind my fist into her pussy like her heel was in my ass.  We were both grinding like mad when she brought her other foot into play. She has very dexterous toes and she fondled my cock and tugged my scrotum with those toes.  I told her I had never had a foot fetish before but was sure that she could train me to have one.

Well, we did need to get up and shower before church, so we dragged ourselves off each other and did so.

Later, when we were alone, we did some chores, I showed her that I was prepped with two elastic hair bands around my cock and balls and clear plastic nipple suckers doing their thing.

I worked in the garage for a while, then got out my toy boxes of ropes.  WE got naked and I tied a crotch harness on her and bound her breasts.  The ropes through her crotch were placed to hold her pussy lips open and her cunt as revealed as possible.  Then we did the same with me, tying a tight binding around by cock and balls, then a couple tight wraps around my chest which really made those nipple suckers stand out.  We also placed the suction cups from a snake bite kit on her nipples.  She started vacuuming the kitchen floor dressed in only her ropes, while I put my clothes back on to return to the garage.  I couldn't resist pulling my belt from my pants and encouraging her to do a good job by whipping her ass and back as she vacuumed.

Halfway through my work I came in to check on her.  She asked me to get a couple golf balls from the porch.  She said she was always intrigued by benwa balls and then washed and sanitized the balls, then had me place them in her pussy.  The first one went in easily, the second had some trouble finding a place to go in there, but it fit in. I wonder what it felt like to her, maybe someday she will join me in some writing so we can find out! The balls wanted to pop back out so I put a couple wraps of the rope to the center to go right over her opening and help keep them inside.  I left her with the balls inside to work on her chores.

After my work was done, I came back in the house.  She was starting to scrub the kitchen floor on her hands and knees.  This definitely required a whipping, so I pulled my belt off my pants.  It was so hot to see her scrubbing on her hands and knees, naked and wrapped in ropes.  I whipped her ass, back, and as much of her breasts, belly and pussy as I could hit.  When she was halfway done, I told her to leave some for me to do.  She got up and I got down on the floor, draped the belt over my back and started scrubbing.  She did a great job of whipping me, some of the hits really stung a lot and there were quite a few to my belly and chest where the tip of the belt wrapped and left a good welt.  I certainly didn't rush though, it was a great chance to have her whip me longer and harder than I get usually, including many to my cock and balls and my very accessible ass hole.  Finally she pulled me up from the floor, plucked the nipple suckers from my nipples and sucked my nipples.  We were both extremely hot. 

She shyly told me that she had tried the vacuum cleaner on herself and offered to show me.  This really blew me away as I never thought she would go for something like that.  She continues to amaze me.  She took the snake bite suckers off her nipples and got the vacuum.  She first used the part that has four holes around the tube so she could control the suction somewhat by closing some of the holes with her fingers.  It was so hot to see her suck her nipples into that thing and see through the hole in the pipe the nipple stretched out. After a few tries she was closing all the holes.  Then I took off my shirt and she tried  it on my nipples.  Wow, That was hot.  It was cumbersome so she switched to the tube with no holes and just went with full suction. When she sucked her nipple in and let the hose dangle from her stretched breast it was amazing.  I used the vacuum on her nipples, her belly and as much of her pubic mound as I could get to through all the ropes.  Then she used it on me, when she approached my cock with it a strand of precum was pulled from my cock to the vacuum, that was pretty cool.  She sucked my cock into the hose and stretched it out.  Soon it was hard and wouldn't fit inside the hose. Then she let it suck my cock head and let the full weight of the hose hang from me.  Finally she pulled it off my cock and sucked the hose on to my balls, one at a time them the scrotum in between.  This was certainly one of the kinkiest things we have done and it did not even require any store bought sex toys!

Again, she amazes me with some of the things she initiates.  I never thought this Catholic girl nurse would put golf balls in her cunt and suck her nipples with the vacuum cleaner.

We went to the living room and had a great time sucking and kissing each other.  I wanted to kiss her pussy and got down on the floor and put my head on a chair, face up for her to sit on me.  It was hard to get a good position for her, so she put some blankets on the floor and had me lay down on my back and sat on my face.  I was in heaven as I ate her out. We had a great 69 as she sucked my cock and balls.  Towards the end she sat very firmly on my face, I only wish it was for a longer time, I fantasize about having her smother me with her pussy and ass firmly planted on my face.

Then we switched places, she got on her knees and asked me to screw her.  After being erect more times than I could count in the last 2 days, I was having a little trouble at the moment getting good and hard. I was rubbing my cock with my hand as she used the magic wand on her clit.  I felt a sudden feeling like I needed to pee and then there was wet stuff in my hand.  I thought it was a lot of precum and licked it up only to find it was definitely come.  It sure didn't feel like and orgasm, so maybe this is what they call a ruined orgasm.  I quickly stuffed my cock in her pussy before it could fade away and fucked her fast and hard and had a mind blowing orgasm in no time. 

She then laid on her back and I retrieved that golf balls from her pussy, then she brought herself to an orgasm with the Magic Wand while I tugged her nipples.  I had been thinking prior to my orgasm that it would be hot if she made me eat her pussy after I came in it.  After I tasted my cum, I wasn't so eager to eat it, but she came with really white looking cum that I would gladly lick up.  I do hope that someday she can dominate me to the point of making me eat my cum from her pussy, I think it would be really hot to have her sit on my face and make me eat it when my desire has waned.

After we recovered from the immediate aftermath of our orgasms we talked a little more about our sexuality. She said she is amazed that after all these years she is still learning things about me. I am amazed that after all these years she can still surprise me with things she is willing to try and do.  We are both amazed that after all these years of hot sex that it just keeps on getting even better.  Who knows where we will be five years from now?

I kneed denial

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Pantied

After a long working week, we were both quite tired on Friday night.  The LP was at a friend's house overnight though so we really felt we should do something sexy.  We go in bed naked and had some nice foreplay, but we were both so mellow that we finally just decided this wasn't the time and we should just go to sleep.  During the foreplay there was some whispering about last weekends really hot sex.  This included T biting my nipples really hard, at my urging, leaving me with hickies and bruises.  I told her this night that I really enjoyed it a lot and thought it would be really hot if she kept some sort of mark or reminder of her on my at all times.  I suggested the aforesaid bruises, spank or whip marks, wearing something on my genitals or even wearing her panties.

Saturday morning we slept late and mentioned the panties again.  After we got out of the shower she went to her panties drawer and asked which I would like to wear.  WE decided upon a pair that was somewhat of a girdle, very tight and with short legs with lace on the ends.   I squeezed into them, my cock and balls were quite flattened out.  Then I spent the morning stacking firewood, every time I bent over was a strain with them being so tight.  At lunch time we went to the bedroom to swap into a pair of silky royal blue panties.  I chose them because they would really show up the wet spot from my pre-cum.  I wore them the rest of the day as we teased each other.  She squeezed into the panty girdle that I had worn for the morning.

Finally we went to bed, I modeled them for her, then she asked where the locking strap was.  I told her of course it was in her bedside table since it is hers to use.  She got it out and I wrapped it tightly around my cock and balls and she snapped the lock on.  She may not quite understand this, but I consider myself, including my orgasms, under her control when locked.  We continued to have some great sex play, unfortunately I don't remember now exactly what we did.  She really does enjoy being fucked so I really don't have to fear being denied intercourse as some men in chastity games are.  She soon had me get in positions to insert my cock into her while the lock bumped her clit as we fucked.  As I said, I was locked and craved to be denied, somewhat so that we would be inspired to continue again the next day.
She started to spin some fantasy stories out loud, including talking about me being dominated including some pony play like having her riding me while I crawled on all fours, putting a bit in my mouth and binding my body tightly in a leather harness.  I actually thought I was coming once as I had some spasms, at which I stopped pumping, probably having a "ruined" orgasm. I was having a tough time maintaining control by then and totally lost it when she talked about making me run in circles around  her on a lead line while she whipped me along to keep it up.
I couldn't hold back then and came, and exclaimed "shit, shit, shit" as I did so.  I couldn't really enjoy it because I was so disappointed to have come when she didn't tell me to.  Of course she hadn't really told me not to come, but as I said, when I was locked I don't want to come until she tells me to and crave having her deny, at least till the next day.

You would think that with my interest in denial that we must be doing it every day, but as with many people, life is too busy, we're too tired, and once a week is usually normal.  The thing is that the rest of the week is not a week of denial, it's just a week of Nothing.  I've tried to encourage some play now and then and told her that getting me a little aroused does not mean we will need to go all the way.  For years we tended to not get started with anything if we weren't in a position to finish it and she still hasn't quite got used to the idea that I would love to be teased, aroused and left that way till next time!

Locked for love

I”ve been reading about male chastity along with tease and denial for awhile. The blogs I have read have generally presented this activity as being an overall positive experience for the couples involved, although one well known writer on the topic warns to “be careful what you wish for”.

Many people, including my wife, don't understand how a male who generally strives to achieve orgasm as often as possible would wish to be denied this pleasure. I am sure that some of the attraction to this activity is gained with age. We learn that it is more enjoyable to prolong the pleasure over time rather than rushing to the finish.

We have had a few scenes recently that included some orgasm denial play and I have really enjoyed it. One night I told her that I would find it very sexy to have her enjoying her orgasm while I was receiving no pleasure, or even suffering some pain in contrast to her pleasure. She obliged me by tying my hands together, placing several clothes pins on my scrotum and then enjoying her magic wand vibrator while I was lying next to her naked and in pain. After she was done she teased me about whether or not I should come then. I kind of wanted her to say that I couldn't and would have to go without till at least the next day but she thought I had suffered enough. I say too much is not enough!

On our anniversary trip to an out of town hotel I was determined that she would come before me and do so at least 3 times before I would. In the past she would many times not orgasm at all during a sexual scene and 3 times might take awhile this time. I started by saying that I really would like to relive our island vacation where she tied me up to the bathroom door and shaved my pubes. She thrilled me by doing just that. She gave a very clean shave while I watched in the mirror. When she was done I said that she should go masturbate while I “hung out” in the bathroom. She left me strung up there to listen while she had a noisy orgasm on the bed with the Hitachi wand. After she let me down I ate her out to another orgasm before we went out to dinner. Unfortunately she wasn't feeling well after dinner so I was chaste till the next day when we took care of her orgasm and didn't have time for mine until after breakfast. But then I had a few more during the next few days and she had none!

Locked at Last!

She joined me for an overnight at a hotel this week where I was attending a conference. Yeah, time for some hot hotel monkey sex! I brought along a bag of “toys”, just in case. The first night I did some kinky solo play, but refrained from orgasm so I could save it for her.

When we finally got to the room the next night she was feeling tired, I was feeling very horny, but resolved to not press on the kinky sex if she was not interested. She mentioned whether I had any new toys and joked about the first time she said “show me something new” during our dating days and I pulled a rope out of my bag. I did have some new toys including a leather cock and ball strap complete with a small lock. It was the one thing I had really wanted to present to her, hopefully earlier in the day so she could have put it on me before we went to dinner. I went and got the strap from my bag and brought it to her, showing her the lock after she had seen the rest. I said this is for locking up “your” cock and balls. When the lock is on they will belong to you. She did seem to find this rather appealing and had me place the strap on so that nothing would get pinched in the process. She put the lock on and we kissed lovingly. Then she said she knew what she wanted and spread her legs. I said that I love your pussy and want to kiss it all the time. I ate her like a man possessed, just could not get enough of having my face in her wet snatch and giving as much pleasure as possible.

While I was pleasuring her she talked about what she could do while I was locked up including making me wear it while we went to breakfast in the morning. After she came she said she was ready to sleep and that I would have to wait till morning. She did tell me to take off the strap for the night since it was pretty tight, but I was to replace it as soon as I woke in the morning.

I was very aroused, but it was late and I did get to sleep soon. When I woke up in the morning I retrieved the strap from under my pillow and locked it on. T woke up and found me already locked and ready. Unfortunately I had to go to a meeting in the morning so we didn't have time for prolonged play.

She got me good and hard and headed for the shower. I asked if I could take the strap off before showering since the water wouldn't do the little lock any good. I was planning on putting it back on for breakfast, but that great big shower stall was too much fun and we ended up fucking in there and she let me come then. It was very hot, but I was really hoping that she would be keep me aroused all day in hopes of a release that evening.

Birthday lunch

As usual much time has gone by without updating any of the very exciting things that have happened. Too much time spent on line reading other people's stories and not keeping up with my own.

This week is my birthday and I always look forward to a reason for my at least annual spanking. T is not too eager to give me any kind of spanking or really anything much in the way of inflicting pain. I guess it runs contrary to a nurse's nature. Hopefully I will get back to writing up details of our anniversary weekend in which I bound her breasts, then tied her to a tree in the woods and whipped her ass with her belt.

But to the details of the present and my birthday lunch. Recently we were having sex and got to talking in the heat of the moment about putting things in her pussy (stuffing) like a cucumber, zucchini, eggplant, or as we were reaching orgasm, an orange. Some place along the way cocktail franks came up and it was discussed stuffing her with multiple little franks. It was great fantasy talk.

I thought it was just fantasy until last Tuesday. As I left for work T suggested maybe I might like to come home for lunch. That means afternoon delight while we have the house to ourselves. I didn't need a second invitation, but she made one when she called me at around 11 and suggested that I stop at the store and get some cocktail franks. Wow! I never thought she would actually do something like this. Being a nurse she is very particular about getting things where they don't belong and may create an infection or irritation. So I stopped at the store and found the franks along with a roll of crescent roll dough.

We cooked up some of the franks as mini pigs in blankets to have a preview for lunch. During that time T put the remaining franks in a bowl of hot water to warm them up. I noticed she also placed two full size hot dogs in the bowl.

After lunch we went to the bedroom. It's always hard to just get started with something like this in the middle of the day. We stripped to underwear and got under the covers and did some necking and fondling to get us warm and heated up. It was chilly in that room!

T then spread her legs wide and invited me to eat her pussy before we started with the franks, I was glad to dive in! As we were making out, she hinted that the franks would do well to really fill her, including her ass, which I was surprised at, and also hinted that some would likely make there way into my ass, which I was thrilled to hear.

After I ate her tasty pussy, I got the bowl of franks and pulled out a string of 3. I put the first one in my mouth and got it warm, then pushed it in her pussy. The next 2 quikly followed. I grabbed another string and pressed them in. Six and counting. After nine she said she wanted my cock in there too.

I shoved it in there along side the franks and it felt great to me. She was tight and those franks were just rubbing all around me. I pulled out and grabbed some more franks. A full dozen of little franks up in my wifes hot pussy! One of the full size dogs easily slid in, leaving a few inches hanging out. I went down on that hot dog like it was a little cock sticking out of her. I sucked and licked it and ate her pussy.

Then I took another string of franks and pressed one into her asshole. One frank was hanging out by the string between them and it looked so nasty hanging out of her like that. Of course I had to lick and suck on that one and lick her asshole good. I kept on filling her ass with the franks and don't remember how many I put up there, at least 6, maybe 10.

I put the other hot dog in her ass and enjoyed the sight of her with one sticking out of each hole. I couldn't resist getting on my back and sliding up under her to eat her pussy with that hot dog sticking out. Ok I was sucking hot dog more than pussy. T started to get into it and pumped her hips to fuck the hot dog in my mouth.

She finally pulled me up and said she thought she was ready to give me my spanking. I laid down on the bed and offered up my ass. She started spanking my ass, not nearly hard enough for my tastes. She told me to kneel up and then she spread my cheeks and blew on my anus. Next she started rubbing it with her finger and finally what I had been waiting for, the cool wet frank. She pressed it into me and it popped in. She asked if I was ok and if I wanted another. Of course I did! She kept on pushing more of the little franks up my ass until I had 11 in there. She asked if I wanted one more for the dozen and I said yes, but I want the hot dog. She giggled and said that's what she had in her hand already. She stuffed that hot dog in my hole and said it looked like my cock going in her, it wrinkled up some as it went in. She got it in me then began fucking it in and out. The feeling of it rubbing on my sphincter as it went in and out felt really good. I told T that we had created a monster because I was definitely going to want to do this again.

In betweeen the insertion of the franks she was spanking my ass, including spreading my cheeks and spanking my bulging asshole. She started out counting spanks, but I think we both totally lost track. She then told me to get up and look at my ass in the mirror with the hot dog sticking out of it . It was hot alright!

Finally she said it was time to finish up and she wanted to get fucked. She got in an appropriate doggy position and got out her Hitachi magic wand. She quickly brought herself to a squirting orgasm as I switched between fucking her frank filled cunt and humping her ass crack.

Early on in the session she talked about whether I should come or not. I remember it was something about the choice of coming or getting some punishment (which I would enjoy either way) and I said I really wanted to come, but had recently been finding the concept of being not allowed to come to be strangley extremely exciting.

AS I fucked her full pussy and tried to fight off my orgasm I was intent on not coming unless she told me it was ok. I don't think I ever saw my cock look so big and ready to come. Finally she blurted out, yes! Come now! And I had the loudest mind blowing orgasm that I think I have ever had.

I am writing this the next day. All the franks came out ok, we are both none the worse for the experience and have both been thinking about it a lot over night and today. IT was really kinky and hot and I think we will likely do something like this again. I hope it is sooon!

Once again, we may not have sex that often, but when we do it just keeps getting better!