I'll tell you when you want to come

Yes, TW has been taking to the FLR more all the time.  We were at a wedding last weekend and we got separated in the crowd at the reception for the first 20 minutes or so.  When we got together she told me that I was to tell her where I was going if I left her for the rest of the evening.
She was away for three nights last week and told me that I should think about sex with her as much as possible, particularly when I was in places that usually did not involve sex.  So I thought of her as I scrubbed the kitchen floor on my hands and knees, naked, balls bound and dragging a full 20 oz bottle from them and my ankles hobbled.  And with a riding crop to my ass when I spilled water.
Or naked in her garden weeding.
I masturbated often, to the edge without orgasm, until I accidentally went too far.  I brought myself to the edge and thought if I squeezed my balls it might stop the cum, but instead it gave me a mindblowing orgasm.

I told TW of my accidental cum when she returned and "suggested" that I needed to be disciplined.  She thought that teasing and denial for longer was appropriate since I desperately wanted to have fulfilling sex with her after her absence.  But what I really want is for her to take control and deny orgasm.
She did that on our last night together before I left for 3 nights at scout camp. She had said before the wedding that she expected to let me come before I went away.  I really wanted to as we had some great foreplay all afternoon, but I hoped that she would make it go longer.

That evening we had some great sex, oral for both of us, intercourse, and eventually she pushed me away and said "no coming for you!"  I thanked her for taking control and told her that I really enjoyed her taking ownership of my cock and balls and hoped that she would lock them up often.

I'm now back from my 3 nights away.  My last orgasm was 11 days ago when I had the accident.  The last time with TW I'm not sure, but has been at least 14 days since she allowed me to come.  Will I come today or in a few days?  She will tell me when.

laundry service

I was ready to leave for work recently when TW called down the stairs and asked if I could do a favor for her.  "Of course dear" I said, thinking that if we had a real female led, femdom relationship she would tell be what to do rather than asking.  I would be happy to serve her.  Little did I know.
She asked me to bring the small basket of clothespins from the front porch upstairs.  This was curious.
When I entered the bedroom she told me (not asked) to take my pants off. The she told me that there were towels in the washer that needed to be hung on the line.  She then took 6 clothes pins and placed them on my cock and balls and sent me on my way. She was nice enough to say that I could move any of them that got too painfull.  I hang the towels and the only pins I moved were some that became loose.  I came back upstairs and she removed the pins, kissing and licking each spot she removed from.  I was hot and hard and she told me to get dressed and go to work.  Oh, I love this woman!

Fake it!

Well, I haven't had a chance to write in a few weeks or so, but there has been some great sex action including some female control/led/dom.  After that last session where she fingered my ass hole till I came, I told her it was terrific and I owed her.  The next day I brought her flowers to let her know that I really enjoyed it.  Then she has had numerous orgasms to my few.  I have kissed and licked her pussy nearly every day before leaving for work, just to start her day off well.

Last night she came home from a 4 day trip out of town with our daughters.  She had told me that I should bring myself to the edge often and not come. ONe time though while I was trying to edge my self and stop the orgasm by squeezing my balls, I came anyway, really hard and loud. 
When we went to bed last night we were both very tired, but she came to bed without panties, usually an invitation.  She put her knees up in front of her and I responded by grinding my cock and balls against them.
I told her that I had missed her and her knees.  She asked if I had been able to hold off while she was away and I confessed that I had slipped up and come once.  She said that maybe I needed to be disciplined for that and I agreed that I should.  I had scrubbed the kitchen floor for her while she was away, naked, bound, and on my hands and knees.  She thought I should do that again as discipline. I agreed that I should and suggested that she might also deny my orgasm for some time.  She thought that would be interesting too.
After getting us all worked up, we agreed that we needed to get to sleep, kissed passionately and turned out the light. 
During the night I woke to find her sleeping face down, bare assed.  I couldn't resist giving her a kiss on the ass check when I returned from the bathroom and left it at that.  She made a little sound and then asked if I wouldn't like to hop on her right now?  I would and kissed her ass thoroughly as my hard on woke up, then I got behind her and slid my cock in her pussy.  I gave her a good fucking, but I certainly didn't want to come now since I was due for some denial.  She asked if I was close to coming and I gave a positive indication.
"Good", she said, "I want you to pretend you are coming and then stop."  Wow, that's a new one, and hard to comply with at this point, but I used every bit of my self control to pretend I was coming complete with hard fucking and moans and groans and neck biting.  Then I stopped.  AFter a moment she said "that was fun and now I could have you fuck me again right away!"  I don't know how long that would last, but she told me instead to try and go to sleep now.  I thought I would never get to sleep, but I did pulled out, rolled over and eventually did sleep. 
I'm looking forward to her teasing and finding out how long my disciplined denial will last.

Dommed, but not denied

Dommed, but not denied

I came home from work for lunch knowing that TW was home. I let her know in the morning that I was planning on it so she could be at least mentally prepared. The delicious aroma of homemade turkey soup awaited me as I entered the kitchen. We had a very nice lunch together after which she asked if I was interested in more that just lunch. I said that I was always interested and she went to “freshen up”. I thought I would make some points, and do some service to her by doing the dishes.

In a few minutes I went to the bedroom, she was done cleaning up and ready to move on. Time is limited so I proceeded to get naked and under the covers. It was a chilly, damp day so she got under the covers too and we snuggled together and tried to get warm. I spooned her from behind, but she said her feet were cold and put them on my legs. I got lower down in the bed and pulled her feet into my crotch and against my cock and balls. This should warm her feet and get me going. As she ground her feet against my balls my cock was starting to get hard.

TW said she wanted to try something she had been thinking about. She asked me if I wanted to do something new to follow her. I had no idea what she had in mind but told her I would be happy to follow her and try anything. She grabbed a towel and lead the way to the next room and put the towel on the floor in front of the couch. She sat on the couch and told me to kneel and take care of her feet.

I knelt down and took her foot in my hands and stroked and massaged it from toe to heel and top to bottom. Then I kissed and licked her toes. I sucked each toe and nibbled the whole bottom of her foot. I sucked her big toe like I was going down on a mini cock, then rubbed the bottom of her foot all over my face. I did the same with the other foot, worshipping her feet like a good submissive husband.

Then she pushed me back with her feet and put them in my crotch, rubbing up and down my erect cock and tumbling me nuts with her toes. She has very dexterous toes and she managed to hold my cock between two toes and slide the toe in between those two up and down my cock. Occasionally she would put her feet back in my mouth so I could lube them with my saliva.

Eventually the toe play made it's way back to my ass and she poked those talented toes all around my asshole. We had talked in the past about her putting a toe up my ass and I was all for it. She suggested I get some real lube so I ran to the bedroom and got the bottle. I wasn't sure how to position myself best for this and tried to spread my cheeks while in a somewhat sitting, leaning back position. This wasn't working too well since she could not see what she was doing so I flipped over on my knees and put my ass up in the air and my head down. Now she put some more lube on and poked her big toe in my ass. Even with short nails I didn't know if I could get it inside, but then she started putting a finger in me and it went in just fine.

I had a solo masturbation session a week before where I had been trying some ass play with my fingers and managed to get 3 and almost 4 fingers inside, so I knew that one was no problem. AS she worked her finger in my ass it felt terrific. She was stroking in and out, then grabbed my cock with her other hand and started masturbating me. Her hand was coated with slippery lube and felt amazing. In only a few minutes at most the feeling of being finger fucked up the ass and the smooth stroking of my cock was overwhelming. I told her I was going to come and she told me it was alright and to let go.

I came incredibly hard, spurting on to the towel. Then TW kept on gently stroking my cock and this was really intense. I've read about post orgasmic torture. Usually after intercourse, I like to grind in and out afterwards and enjoy the “aftershocks”, but this was way beyond that. I don't know how I managed to stay in place without being restrained. It was soo good, but such agony of incredible feelings at the same time.

I was ready to collapse and TW went to the bathroom to clean up her hands. I managed to stagger in after a few minutes and took a quick shower. I felt bad about not providing much sexual stimulation to her and not even close to an orgasm. I had to get back to work and left her with a very warm kiss and promises of “I owe you”.

GOOD morning

GOOD Morning!

Yes it was!  I went to bed last night and TW stayed up watching a movie.  I barely stirred when she came to bed, but I did notice that she was naked, which is unusual.  This morning I took advantage of her knees in front of me and placed my cock and balls upon them.  After a few minutes she rolled over and presented me with her bare bottom.  I played with her ass for a while then moved around to her pussy and fondled her until we were both getting hot.  She then reached over to her bed side table and pulled out 2 golf balls and gave them to me to place inside her.  I put the first one in my mouth to get it wet first, then slid it in her cunt.  I put the next one in my mouth, but this one I transferred direct from my mouth to her pussy, and then proceeded to eat her out.  Eventually I put several fingers in her too along with the golf balls.  While I was eating her out she was really getting in to it and trapping my head between her thighs and pulling my hair.  Then she put her feet on my back and held me down while she humped her pussy against my face.  This was almost as hot for me as the pussy eating was for her.  I was grunting and groaning and really getting in to it too.  She does like getting fucked and she told me to put my cock in her. I had no problem getting in there with the golf balls.  I screwed her for a while and tried really hard not to come.  She asked if I wanted to and I said that I was trying not too and that I was willing to hold off as long as possible if she wanted me to if that was 10 minutes, 1 hour, 10 hours or days.  She said that she would let me know if I could come.  Then she released me and told me to get up and lock the door just in case our daughter woke up.

Then TW told me to gather up all the belts I could find. She had a lot of them hanging up on hooks on the wall.  I laid them out on the bed along with a long scarf I found.  I wasn’t sure what she had in mind to do with the belts, but then she told me to stand in front of her and she started buckling them around me, starting at my chest and working down.  I exhaled and tried to give her room to make them as tight as possible.  There must have been 10 of them and she put them down my belly and the last three were around my thighs.  She said “you missed one”, and pointed to a heavy leather belt with no buckle that is on my side of the room.   I gave her that one and she started lightly slapping me with it.  She was smacking my cock with it and I was loving it. Next she told me to pull one of the golf balls out of her pussy and hold it in my mouth.  She got the Magic Wand vibrator and told me to whip myself with that belt while she masturbated.  I whipped my belly and my cock.  A few times I hit my balls, oh that hurt.  I didn’t want to make too much noise with the belt just in case the daughter could hear, so mainly I whipped my cock.  Finally she did come and I immediately went down on her.  She wanted me to get the other ball out of her pussy, but it wasn’t coming out so she had me lay on my back and she straddled my face, pinning my arms with her legs and plastered her pussy on my mouth.  Within moments, the fluid in her pussy was gushing out into my mouth.  I had to swallow face to keep from drowning. At one point I couldn’t keep up and it was running over my face and into my eye.  Finally she managed to bear down and push that ball into my mouth. 

TW said it was time for me to fuck her and for me to come, but she wanted me to keep that golf ball in my mouth when I did.  It felt so good to sink my tortured cock into her soaking wet cunt.  She rode my hard and I couldn’t move much with all the belts on me and the scarf tied around my wrists.  I didn’t last long and tried to mumble out a request for permission to come. She told me I could and as I exploded I was groaning out “Thank you Mistress”. This had to be one of the most incredible orgasms I have ever felt.

This was such a hot scene.  TW said she really enjoyed the fact that she was enjoying herself with the magic wand as I was suffering in pain with my whipping and that she wasn’t in a hurry to finish as she knew I enjoyed my pain.   This evening I told her that I had really enjoyed our morning.

We are both rather amazed at what hot sex we have been having in the last few months since I told her that I really want to please her and submit to her.  The great thing is that she is seeing the benefit to her and is enjoying a very active role.

Best foot forward

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Home alone journal and the follow up

I wrote this about a month ago. The first half I wrote as a journal during the day of the things I was doing while TW was away for the day.  Then I added some on at the end that is more of a blog post.  

My day of self inflicted tease and sexual torture, to keep me thinking of my beautiful sexy wife while she is away. 

We had some very hot sex last night, spinning a fantasy story about us being in a leather workers shop and what might happen there. I particularly liked the part where she gets the remote controlled vibrator, but when she asks for more they flog and crop me when she gets the vibe.  She really wants to come and we are required to stare at each other as I give her silent assent to take her pleasure at my expense. We have such good fantasies!

She finally used her vibrator and came, I did not.  I was wearing the leather velcro strap around my cock and balls. She asked if I wanted to finish, I said that I honestly wanted to stay horny through the night.  I was.  Kept the strap on all night.  Woke once during the night and was going down stairs to tend fire, saw that I had left the garage light on.  She said she would have me go out naked to turn off, but it is raining.  After tending the fire I took off my robe and went out naked in the rain to turn off the light.  I like her suggestions.

I woke up in the morning and pressed my swollen balls against her upraised knee and thought about what might happen if she pulled her knee upward.  It was scary but enticing.

After she woke we screwed for awhile.  She decided that she wanted to not come then either and remain horny for the day.  She sucked my left nipple very hard and gave me a nice crescent shaped hicky around my nipple.  Later I thanked her for it.  I ate her pussy as I humped her knee with my cock and balls. I ground my swollen balls hard against her knee and fantasized about her taking possession of the most delicate part of my body to use and abuse.  Then fucked the back of her bent knee, it was very hot.  We finally dragged ourselves off to the shower, I asked her to remove the strap for me so it wouldn't get wet.

Lunch time 2pm

Placed ball stretcher on balls, very difficult to apply.

Clipped double ended snap hooks on to hanging loops outside of my boxers.

Put clear suckers on my nipples with cinnamon chap stick.

Took my pants off while eating and hung gates of hell with heavy steel rings from the stretcher, sat on edge of chair with the weights hanging down.

Cock is semi erect and oozing precum leaving wet spots on my shorts

Brought more firewood to porch with wheelbarrow.  Having clanging rings hanging from your nuts makes you feel very slave-like, note to wife for future use.

Emptied dishwasher while naked and weights jangling.  Added weights of beaters and large whisk.

Spanked my ass with the large black spatula, punishment for not cleaning frying pan properly. Yes I washed spatula after.  Added cast iron frying pan to ball weights to carry it from sink to oven.  Wow, that's heavy, won't do that for long.

3pm

Removed ball stretcher and nipple suckers.  Nipples are big, balls ache, ass is pink. Cock dripping precum.

Tied thread around nipples, put 1” neoprene/velcro band around base of scrotum. Got dressed.

Ass was fading, whipped it good with a heavy leather belt, will feel that for a while.

Took out trash and went to pharmacy to get wipes.  Picked up a hair clip for genital/nipple torture at half price.

4pm Removed  ball strap. Used small black flogger on cock & balls. Tried out the hair clip, it has LOTS of little points inside that bite hard on the cock head.  Scrotum is less intense.  Masturbated to the edge of orgasm and stopped, licked up precum. Used riding crop very hard on belly and pubic mound, may leave some nice marks.

4:30  Strapped a wide leather belt around my waist over the red cropped area and buckled it very tight.

5:10 Belt has to come off, can't bend at the waist while working in garage.

6pm Stripped naked, flogged ass and inner thighs with large flogger.  Gagged myself with used panties and brought to edge of orgasm while flogging scrotum with large flogger.  Licked up precum and put on leather velcro strap.

Went to dinner.

7:20

Stripped naked for inspection.  Nice red marks on belly, a little redness on ass.  Surprisingly the strings are still tied on my nipples.  Spanked my ass hard with the rooster.  That thing packs a wallop, especially without a warmup.  Ass has a nice warm glow now.  Tied a crotch harness on with a lightweight green rope.  Red and green looks nice together.

Got dressed to look forward to the return of my wonderful wife.

Hope she is not too tired to appreciate this tonight.

If so that's ok, I'll stay horny for her for another night.

9:00 She finally got home.  By time everyone settled down and we had a moment to talk it was nearly 10 and as expected she was very tired.  I did tell her about this little journal I kept of my activities for the day so that I could remember everything and give her a complete accounting. She perked up enough to read it and found it very interesting.  We proceeded to talk for quite awhile.  She mentioned that she thought this was very interesting reading what I thought and did.  I decided this was the time to come clean with the fact that I have been doing just that in keeping a blog of our sexual activities for over 3 years.  She was of course very surprised, but also very interested. We talked for quite a while about sexual relationships.  I told her that I had learned a lot from blogs and that a lot of the change in my efforts recently were due to my interest in female led relationships, tease and denial and female domination.  I told her that I understood if it was not really her thing, but it is mine and I can not change.  She has enjoyed some of the benefits of this and really likes the part about being put on a pedestal and my doing all I can to please her.

Eventually though we were both very tired and I assured her that I would be fine going to sleep in this state even though I had kept myself at a high state of arousal for most of the day.  Our daughter was going to be away for the afternoon the next day and we could look forward to some great play time.

By now I had the rope harness on for close to three hours already and went to bed naked wearing only that.

I woke up horny several times during the night, the last time being at about 6:30 am. WE didn't have to get up till at least 8, so I just laid there thinking about sex.  Fantasized some about my balls being on her knee as she slept with her leg pulled up.  Thought it would be hot to have my crotch tied to her leg.  At 7 I proceeded to stealthily unwrap the rope harness from around my waist and crotch. Finally got it undone with just the section tied to my cock and balls left.  My plan was to as smoothly as possible tie my genitals to her knee.  I knew this would probably wake her, maybe I could at least have my nuts in place for any sudden moves of her leg.  Just as I started to make my move, she rolled over and took her leg away.  Darn!  But then she got up to go to the bathroom.  Time to take some action, I draped the loose end of the rope over her pillow.  When she returned, she knew what the rope was attached to right away.  She tugged on the rope, then fondled my cock and balls.  I told of my plans to attach myself to her leg.  She got on the bed facedown over some pillows and said she wanted that hard cock inside her.

I obliged for awhile, but we both wanted to hold off until later.  Finally, I pulled out and humped her leg, tying my cock to the back of her leg.  We were enjoying this, but I wanted to lick her pussy, so loosened up the rope and slid down her leg.  I was very surprised by her heel landing in my ass crack.  It actually felt pretty good as I humped and ground on it.  She told me to reach back and spread my ass wide and grind her heel.  It was feeling really good and then she told me to grind my fist into her pussy like her heel was in my ass.  We were both grinding like mad when she brought her other foot into play. She has very dexterous toes and she fondled my cock and tugged my scrotum with those toes.  I told her I had never had a foot fetish before but was sure that she could train me to have one.

Well, we did need to get up and shower before church, so we dragged ourselves off each other and did so.

Later, when we were alone, we did some chores, I showed her that I was prepped with two elastic hair bands around my cock and balls and clear plastic nipple suckers doing their thing.

I worked in the garage for a while, then got out my toy boxes of ropes.  WE got naked and I tied a crotch harness on her and bound her breasts.  The ropes through her crotch were placed to hold her pussy lips open and her cunt as revealed as possible.  Then we did the same with me, tying a tight binding around by cock and balls, then a couple tight wraps around my chest which really made those nipple suckers stand out.  We also placed the suction cups from a snake bite kit on her nipples.  She started vacuuming the kitchen floor dressed in only her ropes, while I put my clothes back on to return to the garage.  I couldn't resist pulling my belt from my pants and encouraging her to do a good job by whipping her ass and back as she vacuumed.

Halfway through my work I came in to check on her.  She asked me to get a couple golf balls from the porch.  She said she was always intrigued by benwa balls and then washed and sanitized the balls, then had me place them in her pussy.  The first one went in easily, the second had some trouble finding a place to go in there, but it fit in. I wonder what it felt like to her, maybe someday she will join me in some writing so we can find out! The balls wanted to pop back out so I put a couple wraps of the rope to the center to go right over her opening and help keep them inside.  I left her with the balls inside to work on her chores.

After my work was done, I came back in the house.  She was starting to scrub the kitchen floor on her hands and knees.  This definitely required a whipping, so I pulled my belt off my pants.  It was so hot to see her scrubbing on her hands and knees, naked and wrapped in ropes.  I whipped her ass, back, and as much of her breasts, belly and pussy as I could hit.  When she was halfway done, I told her to leave some for me to do.  She got up and I got down on the floor, draped the belt over my back and started scrubbing.  She did a great job of whipping me, some of the hits really stung a lot and there were quite a few to my belly and chest where the tip of the belt wrapped and left a good welt.  I certainly didn't rush though, it was a great chance to have her whip me longer and harder than I get usually, including many to my cock and balls and my very accessible ass hole.  Finally she pulled me up from the floor, plucked the nipple suckers from my nipples and sucked my nipples.  We were both extremely hot. 

She shyly told me that she had tried the vacuum cleaner on herself and offered to show me.  This really blew me away as I never thought she would go for something like that.  She continues to amaze me.  She took the snake bite suckers off her nipples and got the vacuum.  She first used the part that has four holes around the tube so she could control the suction somewhat by closing some of the holes with her fingers.  It was so hot to see her suck her nipples into that thing and see through the hole in the pipe the nipple stretched out. After a few tries she was closing all the holes.  Then I took off my shirt and she tried  it on my nipples.  Wow, That was hot.  It was cumbersome so she switched to the tube with no holes and just went with full suction. When she sucked her nipple in and let the hose dangle from her stretched breast it was amazing.  I used the vacuum on her nipples, her belly and as much of her pubic mound as I could get to through all the ropes.  Then she used it on me, when she approached my cock with it a strand of precum was pulled from my cock to the vacuum, that was pretty cool.  She sucked my cock into the hose and stretched it out.  Soon it was hard and wouldn't fit inside the hose. Then she let it suck my cock head and let the full weight of the hose hang from me.  Finally she pulled it off my cock and sucked the hose on to my balls, one at a time them the scrotum in between.  This was certainly one of the kinkiest things we have done and it did not even require any store bought sex toys!

Again, she amazes me with some of the things she initiates.  I never thought this Catholic girl nurse would put golf balls in her cunt and suck her nipples with the vacuum cleaner.

We went to the living room and had a great time sucking and kissing each other.  I wanted to kiss her pussy and got down on the floor and put my head on a chair, face up for her to sit on me.  It was hard to get a good position for her, so she put some blankets on the floor and had me lay down on my back and sat on my face.  I was in heaven as I ate her out. We had a great 69 as she sucked my cock and balls.  Towards the end she sat very firmly on my face, I only wish it was for a longer time, I fantasize about having her smother me with her pussy and ass firmly planted on my face.

Then we switched places, she got on her knees and asked me to screw her.  After being erect more times than I could count in the last 2 days, I was having a little trouble at the moment getting good and hard. I was rubbing my cock with my hand as she used the magic wand on her clit.  I felt a sudden feeling like I needed to pee and then there was wet stuff in my hand.  I thought it was a lot of precum and licked it up only to find it was definitely come.  It sure didn't feel like and orgasm, so maybe this is what they call a ruined orgasm.  I quickly stuffed my cock in her pussy before it could fade away and fucked her fast and hard and had a mind blowing orgasm in no time. 

She then laid on her back and I retrieved that golf balls from her pussy, then she brought herself to an orgasm with the Magic Wand while I tugged her nipples.  I had been thinking prior to my orgasm that it would be hot if she made me eat her pussy after I came in it.  After I tasted my cum, I wasn't so eager to eat it, but she came with really white looking cum that I would gladly lick up.  I do hope that someday she can dominate me to the point of making me eat my cum from her pussy, I think it would be really hot to have her sit on my face and make me eat it when my desire has waned.

After we recovered from the immediate aftermath of our orgasms we talked a little more about our sexuality. She said she is amazed that after all these years she is still learning things about me. I am amazed that after all these years she can still surprise me with things she is willing to try and do.  We are both amazed that after all these years of hot sex that it just keeps on getting even better.  Who knows where we will be five years from now?

I kneed denial

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Pantied

After a long working week, we were both quite tired on Friday night.  The LP was at a friend's house overnight though so we really felt we should do something sexy.  We go in bed naked and had some nice foreplay, but we were both so mellow that we finally just decided this wasn't the time and we should just go to sleep.  During the foreplay there was some whispering about last weekends really hot sex.  This included T biting my nipples really hard, at my urging, leaving me with hickies and bruises.  I told her this night that I really enjoyed it a lot and thought it would be really hot if she kept some sort of mark or reminder of her on my at all times.  I suggested the aforesaid bruises, spank or whip marks, wearing something on my genitals or even wearing her panties.

Saturday morning we slept late and mentioned the panties again.  After we got out of the shower she went to her panties drawer and asked which I would like to wear.  WE decided upon a pair that was somewhat of a girdle, very tight and with short legs with lace on the ends.   I squeezed into them, my cock and balls were quite flattened out.  Then I spent the morning stacking firewood, every time I bent over was a strain with them being so tight.  At lunch time we went to the bedroom to swap into a pair of silky royal blue panties.  I chose them because they would really show up the wet spot from my pre-cum.  I wore them the rest of the day as we teased each other.  She squeezed into the panty girdle that I had worn for the morning.

Finally we went to bed, I modeled them for her, then she asked where the locking strap was.  I told her of course it was in her bedside table since it is hers to use.  She got it out and I wrapped it tightly around my cock and balls and she snapped the lock on.  She may not quite understand this, but I consider myself, including my orgasms, under her control when locked.  We continued to have some great sex play, unfortunately I don't remember now exactly what we did.  She really does enjoy being fucked so I really don't have to fear being denied intercourse as some men in chastity games are.  She soon had me get in positions to insert my cock into her while the lock bumped her clit as we fucked.  As I said, I was locked and craved to be denied, somewhat so that we would be inspired to continue again the next day.
She started to spin some fantasy stories out loud, including talking about me being dominated including some pony play like having her riding me while I crawled on all fours, putting a bit in my mouth and binding my body tightly in a leather harness.  I actually thought I was coming once as I had some spasms, at which I stopped pumping, probably having a "ruined" orgasm. I was having a tough time maintaining control by then and totally lost it when she talked about making me run in circles around  her on a lead line while she whipped me along to keep it up.
I couldn't hold back then and came, and exclaimed "shit, shit, shit" as I did so.  I couldn't really enjoy it because I was so disappointed to have come when she didn't tell me to.  Of course she hadn't really told me not to come, but as I said, when I was locked I don't want to come until she tells me to and crave having her deny, at least till the next day.

You would think that with my interest in denial that we must be doing it every day, but as with many people, life is too busy, we're too tired, and once a week is usually normal.  The thing is that the rest of the week is not a week of denial, it's just a week of Nothing.  I've tried to encourage some play now and then and told her that getting me a little aroused does not mean we will need to go all the way.  For years we tended to not get started with anything if we weren't in a position to finish it and she still hasn't quite got used to the idea that I would love to be teased, aroused and left that way till next time!

Locked for love

I”ve been reading about male chastity along with tease and denial for awhile. The blogs I have read have generally presented this activity as being an overall positive experience for the couples involved, although one well known writer on the topic warns to “be careful what you wish for”.

Many people, including my wife, don't understand how a male who generally strives to achieve orgasm as often as possible would wish to be denied this pleasure. I am sure that some of the attraction to this activity is gained with age. We learn that it is more enjoyable to prolong the pleasure over time rather than rushing to the finish.

We have had a few scenes recently that included some orgasm denial play and I have really enjoyed it. One night I told her that I would find it very sexy to have her enjoying her orgasm while I was receiving no pleasure, or even suffering some pain in contrast to her pleasure. She obliged me by tying my hands together, placing several clothes pins on my scrotum and then enjoying her magic wand vibrator while I was lying next to her naked and in pain. After she was done she teased me about whether or not I should come then. I kind of wanted her to say that I couldn't and would have to go without till at least the next day but she thought I had suffered enough. I say too much is not enough!

On our anniversary trip to an out of town hotel I was determined that she would come before me and do so at least 3 times before I would. In the past she would many times not orgasm at all during a sexual scene and 3 times might take awhile this time. I started by saying that I really would like to relive our island vacation where she tied me up to the bathroom door and shaved my pubes. She thrilled me by doing just that. She gave a very clean shave while I watched in the mirror. When she was done I said that she should go masturbate while I “hung out” in the bathroom. She left me strung up there to listen while she had a noisy orgasm on the bed with the Hitachi wand. After she let me down I ate her out to another orgasm before we went out to dinner. Unfortunately she wasn't feeling well after dinner so I was chaste till the next day when we took care of her orgasm and didn't have time for mine until after breakfast. But then I had a few more during the next few days and she had none!

Locked at Last!

She joined me for an overnight at a hotel this week where I was attending a conference. Yeah, time for some hot hotel monkey sex! I brought along a bag of “toys”, just in case. The first night I did some kinky solo play, but refrained from orgasm so I could save it for her.

When we finally got to the room the next night she was feeling tired, I was feeling very horny, but resolved to not press on the kinky sex if she was not interested. She mentioned whether I had any new toys and joked about the first time she said “show me something new” during our dating days and I pulled a rope out of my bag. I did have some new toys including a leather cock and ball strap complete with a small lock. It was the one thing I had really wanted to present to her, hopefully earlier in the day so she could have put it on me before we went to dinner. I went and got the strap from my bag and brought it to her, showing her the lock after she had seen the rest. I said this is for locking up “your” cock and balls. When the lock is on they will belong to you. She did seem to find this rather appealing and had me place the strap on so that nothing would get pinched in the process. She put the lock on and we kissed lovingly. Then she said she knew what she wanted and spread her legs. I said that I love your pussy and want to kiss it all the time. I ate her like a man possessed, just could not get enough of having my face in her wet snatch and giving as much pleasure as possible.

While I was pleasuring her she talked about what she could do while I was locked up including making me wear it while we went to breakfast in the morning. After she came she said she was ready to sleep and that I would have to wait till morning. She did tell me to take off the strap for the night since it was pretty tight, but I was to replace it as soon as I woke in the morning.

I was very aroused, but it was late and I did get to sleep soon. When I woke up in the morning I retrieved the strap from under my pillow and locked it on. T woke up and found me already locked and ready. Unfortunately I had to go to a meeting in the morning so we didn't have time for prolonged play.

She got me good and hard and headed for the shower. I asked if I could take the strap off before showering since the water wouldn't do the little lock any good. I was planning on putting it back on for breakfast, but that great big shower stall was too much fun and we ended up fucking in there and she let me come then. It was very hot, but I was really hoping that she would be keep me aroused all day in hopes of a release that evening.

Birthday lunch

As usual much time has gone by without updating any of the very exciting things that have happened. Too much time spent on line reading other people's stories and not keeping up with my own.

This week is my birthday and I always look forward to a reason for my at least annual spanking. T is not too eager to give me any kind of spanking or really anything much in the way of inflicting pain. I guess it runs contrary to a nurse's nature. Hopefully I will get back to writing up details of our anniversary weekend in which I bound her breasts, then tied her to a tree in the woods and whipped her ass with her belt.

But to the details of the present and my birthday lunch. Recently we were having sex and got to talking in the heat of the moment about putting things in her pussy (stuffing) like a cucumber, zucchini, eggplant, or as we were reaching orgasm, an orange. Some place along the way cocktail franks came up and it was discussed stuffing her with multiple little franks. It was great fantasy talk.

I thought it was just fantasy until last Tuesday. As I left for work T suggested maybe I might like to come home for lunch. That means afternoon delight while we have the house to ourselves. I didn't need a second invitation, but she made one when she called me at around 11 and suggested that I stop at the store and get some cocktail franks. Wow! I never thought she would actually do something like this. Being a nurse she is very particular about getting things where they don't belong and may create an infection or irritation. So I stopped at the store and found the franks along with a roll of crescent roll dough.

We cooked up some of the franks as mini pigs in blankets to have a preview for lunch. During that time T put the remaining franks in a bowl of hot water to warm them up. I noticed she also placed two full size hot dogs in the bowl.

After lunch we went to the bedroom. It's always hard to just get started with something like this in the middle of the day. We stripped to underwear and got under the covers and did some necking and fondling to get us warm and heated up. It was chilly in that room!

T then spread her legs wide and invited me to eat her pussy before we started with the franks, I was glad to dive in! As we were making out, she hinted that the franks would do well to really fill her, including her ass, which I was surprised at, and also hinted that some would likely make there way into my ass, which I was thrilled to hear.

After I ate her tasty pussy, I got the bowl of franks and pulled out a string of 3. I put the first one in my mouth and got it warm, then pushed it in her pussy. The next 2 quikly followed. I grabbed another string and pressed them in. Six and counting. After nine she said she wanted my cock in there too.

I shoved it in there along side the franks and it felt great to me. She was tight and those franks were just rubbing all around me. I pulled out and grabbed some more franks. A full dozen of little franks up in my wifes hot pussy! One of the full size dogs easily slid in, leaving a few inches hanging out. I went down on that hot dog like it was a little cock sticking out of her. I sucked and licked it and ate her pussy.

Then I took another string of franks and pressed one into her asshole. One frank was hanging out by the string between them and it looked so nasty hanging out of her like that. Of course I had to lick and suck on that one and lick her asshole good. I kept on filling her ass with the franks and don't remember how many I put up there, at least 6, maybe 10.

I put the other hot dog in her ass and enjoyed the sight of her with one sticking out of each hole. I couldn't resist getting on my back and sliding up under her to eat her pussy with that hot dog sticking out. Ok I was sucking hot dog more than pussy. T started to get into it and pumped her hips to fuck the hot dog in my mouth.

She finally pulled me up and said she thought she was ready to give me my spanking. I laid down on the bed and offered up my ass. She started spanking my ass, not nearly hard enough for my tastes. She told me to kneel up and then she spread my cheeks and blew on my anus. Next she started rubbing it with her finger and finally what I had been waiting for, the cool wet frank. She pressed it into me and it popped in. She asked if I was ok and if I wanted another. Of course I did! She kept on pushing more of the little franks up my ass until I had 11 in there. She asked if I wanted one more for the dozen and I said yes, but I want the hot dog. She giggled and said that's what she had in her hand already. She stuffed that hot dog in my hole and said it looked like my cock going in her, it wrinkled up some as it went in. She got it in me then began fucking it in and out. The feeling of it rubbing on my sphincter as it went in and out felt really good. I told T that we had created a monster because I was definitely going to want to do this again.

In betweeen the insertion of the franks she was spanking my ass, including spreading my cheeks and spanking my bulging asshole. She started out counting spanks, but I think we both totally lost track. She then told me to get up and look at my ass in the mirror with the hot dog sticking out of it . It was hot alright!

Finally she said it was time to finish up and she wanted to get fucked. She got in an appropriate doggy position and got out her Hitachi magic wand. She quickly brought herself to a squirting orgasm as I switched between fucking her frank filled cunt and humping her ass crack.

Early on in the session she talked about whether I should come or not. I remember it was something about the choice of coming or getting some punishment (which I would enjoy either way) and I said I really wanted to come, but had recently been finding the concept of being not allowed to come to be strangley extremely exciting.

AS I fucked her full pussy and tried to fight off my orgasm I was intent on not coming unless she told me it was ok. I don't think I ever saw my cock look so big and ready to come. Finally she blurted out, yes! Come now! And I had the loudest mind blowing orgasm that I think I have ever had.

I am writing this the next day. All the franks came out ok, we are both none the worse for the experience and have both been thinking about it a lot over night and today. IT was really kinky and hot and I think we will likely do something like this again. I hope it is sooon!

Once again, we may not have sex that often, but when we do it just keeps getting better!

Boat Striping

Yes, putting new waterline stripe on the boat inspired very hot sex this time. T was helping me for a while with the project and dropped a few hints including sticking some small sections of tape to my jeans. I worked to get done as soon as possible, both to escape the ravenous mosquitoes and to have time for a hot sex before LP got home. T
T went in to "clean up" while I was finishing with the tape and I found her in bed with a book. I got naked and hopped in too. We kissed and necked for awhile, then talked about the first time we used bandage tape while having hot hotel sex. That time I shaved a patch of her pubes, taped her labia shut, then we went out to dinner. Soon we were both ready to try some tape and she got a few handy rolls off the dresser. She taped me first, beginning with my chest, tearing the tape down the middle, then placing the two halves of the tape on each side of my nipple and curving in above and below to push my nipple up into a nice little mini tittie.
Then she used some longer pieces of tape to tape across from the top of one thigh to the other, folding the tape sticky side together in the middle to minimize the amount of pubic hair removal.
Last, she taped from the inside of my ass cheeks, up through my crotch and attaching to my belly, again with a twist in the tape so that it wouldn't stick (too much) to my pubes on the way by. This created sort of a tape jock strap that was firmly stuck to me front and back.

Now it was her turn. I used the same method of split tape around her nipples, taping up high to give her breasts lots of lift. Then I took a long piece, split at each and and taped across both breasts, using the tape to pull them together. A very nice tape bra, with her hard nipples sticking through for tonging and sucking.

I wanted to do something with her ass, so had her get up on her hands and knees and ripped off two pieces of tape. I put a split in one end of each and taped them down on each side of her crack, taping out to a v around her asshole, then pulled the other end as tight as possible to tape out to her ass, spreading her cheeks as much as possible.

We played with each others taped bits for a while then I licked her pussy from the back. I had visions of her smothering me with that spread ass, so I laid down on my back below her and began eating her pussy from below. I was really getting into this and grabbed the tape on her ass and tugged her ass open. She said " I bet you wish you could see what that is doing". I did, but was enjoying the face sitting as I grabbed her hips and pulled her down hard on my mouth.

We were both loving it and I was fantasizing about her sitting on my face after I had come in her and making me eat my come out of her pussy. It was something I really wanted to do before I came, but I knew I wouldn't be so enthused after I had come and the reality set in. That made the fantasy of her making me carry through on my commitment even more exciting in my mind.

But anyway, time was running short and she DOES like to get fucked. So she slid off my face and I slid up on the bed so that she could sit on my cock instead. T was riding my cock like a cowgirl while played with her taped tits. She reached for the Hitachi Magic Wand, saying she needed some pleasure with the pain. I was playing rougher with her tits, having pulled some tape loose so I had something to pull on as I bounced them around. She soon was approaching orgasm and told me to pull the tape off fast. I ripped it off one tit and she screamed with orgasm, squirting all over me. This was too much for me and I ripped off the tape from the other tit and had a screaming orgasm myself, she kept squirting a small pond on to my belly. I was wet all the way up to my armpits!

We both felt like we had died and gone to heaven. As we recovered, she said it's amazing, we just keep finding new and more exciting things to do together, after all these years. Oh Yeah!

Sleep well

Last night I was working a project for work at home, which is unusual. Worked on it right up till I went to bed, very tired.
T was getting ready for bed too and she didn't seem to be putting on her warm pj's even though it was a little chilly in the room.
Yes, she was coming to bed in panties only, an invitation for sure. She said she wanted to help me get to sleep and not be thinking about work.
She asked if she could warm her hands on me, "of course".
Then I put my hands on her bottom, not too warm yet.
We fondled each other then began to kiss. As the fondling got more involved, the kissing got hotter and wetter. I was tugging and stretching her labia and she was working my nuts.
Then T climbed on top of me, this is unusual but welcome. She wriggled around and got my hard cock inside her and started humping. I'd been thinking about sex and not having any for over a week, so I was quick to get up to speed. She was too and sat upright as she rode me. I took this as an inivitation to play with her tits. I fondled them, then stretched her nipples. I was thinking about a video I saw that day of two women torturing each others labia, pinching and stretching. I played rougher with her tits, grabbing a handful and roughly massaging it, then tugging them upward and outward. I told her I was feeling like I was about to launch and she said "go ahead".
That's all it took and I had an explosive orgasm. She was shushing me to be quiet as our daughter was in the next room (hopefully asleep), but I just couldn't and made quite a bit of noise, though I tried to muffle the noise with her breast in my mouth.
Today at work, I still smell her pussy on my hands. Yum.

HHMS

Yes, the always eagerly anticipated Hot Hotel Monkey Sex!
During a 2 night stay at a very nice hotel last week, we had some great sex.
I always pack my bags for these opportunities, just in case, and this didn't disappoint.
The first night I treated T to oral sex for a super long time, my neck may never recover. During that time I fantasized about a replay in a switched format of something we had done before at a hotel. I had tied her up in the closet, flogged her, closed the door and left her there for while. I was now dreaming of her tying me up in the closet and leaving me there while she went to bed and masturbated.
I told her about this dream as we were getting revved up for the second night. She asked me to get out the things I had brought so she would know what she had to work with. I placed the following on the bed: a 20' rope, leather flogger, cock and ball harness, supple nip suction cups, Japanese rope bondage cuffs and a pair of over the door cuffs.




THese nip suckers work very nicely on my nips. I got larger ones for T but she just can't get them to stay on. I think her nips are too nubbley.
First she put chapstick on my nipples to help get a good seal, then applied the suckers, yum!
Then she started to put on the cock and ball harness, she had a little trouble figuring out which way was up, by time I helped her, it was tough to turn over since I was already hard.
Then she did a very nice shibari style tie with the rope starting out draped around the back of my neck with well place knots down the front, through the crotch and up the crack, then ties from back to front and around my chest. This cinched my cock and balls nicely and made my chest squeeze out between the ropes like little titties. Rowr.
Then she told me to kneel on the floor and bend over the bed. This really pulled those ropes tight. She then used the flogger on my ass, thighs and back. Yes things were getting really hot in the room. Then T pulled me up to my knees in front of her and told me to eat her pussy. I was happy to do so and licked and sucked as well as I could in this position.
Back to my fantasy, she told me to get up and put the bondage cuffs on me and led me to the closet. She had me put me hands on the back of my neck and somehow managed to use the over the door cuffs to tie me up from the ropes around my back to the clothes rod in the closet. This and my hands behind my neck caused me to have to keep my face towards the floor, very submissive like. Then she used the flogger on the front of me, flogging my chest, my cinched up cock and balls and my thighs. I was loving all the attention when she draped the flogger around the back of my neck, closed the closet door and left me there to think about things.
My fantasy come true! I totally enjoyed it, and even more so when I heard her start up the Hitachi magic wand and bring herself to a great orgasm while I was left straining in my bondage in the closet behind closed doors. If I weren't getting pretty uncomfortable by then with my hands behind my neck, I would have craved being kept there for longer, waiting for her to allow my release. Fortunately for my neck, which already ached from all the muff diving the night before, she didn't wait long before she came and got me out of the closet.
She loves to be fucked and I couldn't wait do get unrestrained enough to do just that, leading quite quickly to a roaring orgasm that I'm sure the people in the next room heard very well.

start the day right

Well, looking back at when my last post was, I've missed out on writing about many things. I did finally get that birthday spanking. The details are vague in my memory now, but it did include many belts, mostly buckled around me, but one was used to whip my ass.
Also had a great rope bondage session recently, began with binding T's breasts, then after she had a great orgasm I said what about my turn and she bound my cock and balls very nicely, finishing up with a great screw.

But, before I forget all about it I'll recount yesterday. I woke up with a serious hardon. We just watched the movie "The Bucket List" wherein one of the characters says that as you get older "never waste an erection". T has said before that if I wake up horny during the night that I should just go for it and snuggle up with her. She was wearing the one piece footed sleeper that I got her for Christmas, which does not provide easy access. So I got up, closed the door and dropped my shorts and stradled her chest. The first thing she saw when she opened her eyes was my hard cock. She said "oh my" and took it in her mouth. She gave me some great head for a few minutes. Then I pulled out and moved her around on the bed so that her head was hanging over the edge. I stood in front of her and slid my cock deep into her mouth and throat. This was great, and I fucked her mouth, nearly coming, but after a few minutes there was too much blood rushing to her head, along with my cock head, so I let her up on to the bed. I straddled her again and placed my scrotum on her mouth. She licked my balls then sucked them each. Then she took them both in her mouth and held on as I fucked her mouth with my nuts. I loved pulling on them as she held them in her mouth.
But I know she loves to finish with me in her pussy, so I popped my nuts out of her mouth, turned her around on the bed and sunk my cock in her. She was very wet and I slid in quickly.
The fucking was fast and furious and I came hard and fast.
What a great way to start the day!

No Happy Birthday this year

So my birthday is getting to be the only date all year when I can expect a spanking. T can rationalize that it's ok to "hurt" me then and I love it! Well, I don't expect crazy kinky sex on a Wednesday night after work and with child in house, but I was hoping for at least some sex. But nooo, just like the foiled plans of MR MD of Over Forty Married Sex blog, she's got her period, again, three weeks after the last time. Seems that as menopause is approaching she is getting it more frequently. Whoopee! So maybe all is not lost and I'll be dreaming of having some hot times this weekend.
If not, I may just have to take matters into my own hands. Did have some fun selfbondage today while in the woods by the creek. Despite the chilly air, I tied my naked crotch to a tree with a rope. Then tied one end to the tree, the other to my cock and balls and wound the rope tightly around myself as I spun around slowly taking up the 20 feet of rope around and around my hips, managing to get one turn between the nuts, the next over my cock and finishing the last couple wraps around my arms and chest, pinning them to my sides. But despite the enjoyment of this, it just leads to yet more frustration. Fun though.

veggies are good for you

Well, this is sad, been over a year since I last posted. Too much time spent reading other blogs and not writing my own. I recently found one called Over Forty Married Sex. It is very good, very sexy and also often funny and amusing. I can relate to so much of it too. I was encouraged by the author, Mr MD to get my blog active again, so here's a start.

Recently I woke up on a lazy Saturday morning to find that T was out of bed before me. Unusual. Youngest daughter was away at a friend's and we had the house to ourselves.
T returned to bed and snuggled up to me with her butt against my crotch. I realized that there was something hard protruding slightly under her panties. I rubbed it and tried to figure out what it was. Turns out that while downstairs she had carved a zucchini squash to shape and placed it in position for fun. Now this was a while back so I don't remember the details too clear. What happened then was I grabbed hold of that long hard veggie and ground it between her pussy lips.
It didn't take long for me to start shoving it inside. As I begin to fuck here good with that long greenie, she got out the Hitachi magic wand and began to work her clit with that. She had a a glorious loud climax as I pumped that squash in and out like mad.

We took a few minutes to calm down, then she told me that she had one for me if I was interested. Was I ever! She reached over and got another zucchini and a pocket knife. She carved one end down to a reasonable size for my tight ass, including a notched ring at the extent of the insertable portion which was about four inches. It was so exciting to think that was there to help hold this inside me. The rest of the squash stayed full thickness to be used as a handle. I imagined that big fat hard thing hanging down from my asshole between my legs.

First she had me lube it up with my mouth, which was very kinky. Once I had it sloppy wet, she told me that I had better put it in since I could feel what was happening and take the pace accordingly. I was laying on my side and pulled one leg up and reached back to my ass and rubbed this cold hard thing against my asshole. It went in fairly easily and felt really good. After a few minutes of getting going, she had me roll partly on my back so she could suck my cock. I was really fucking this thing into my ass hard now when the "handle" snapped off at the ring. She said she was afraid that might happen, but had been thinking that it would be rather interesting if it did and I spent the next few hours with it lodged inside my ass. The thought of that, along with the knowledge that T was thinking that way, was very arousing. She continued giving me terrific head and I did the best I could to fuck my ass with what was left of the squash.
Usually when I come, it builds gradually, I know it's coming. But not this time, I was flying so high, I wasn't sure that I had come in her mouth until after I did.
It was amazing and I hope to repeat this again soon.

Roses, not just for Valentines

I did some shopping on Ebay recently, from my new favorite retailer "Lifestyles in Leather".
I recently bought a ball gag from there and now went shopping for either a better quality crop or a flogger. Well I bid upon one and then the other also was available. Might as well save on shipping and get both at the same time. The crop is red and the business end has a leather rose on it complete with little leaves down the shaft. Nice quality and very attractive. It works well too! The flogger as I remember ( haven't used it yet) is also red, I expected suede but it is more like just thin strips of leather. A little more stingy, but that is ok by me.

So T went on a trip to Europe this week and we just had to have a hot sex scene before she left. Lucky us, all three kids found someplace to spend the night and we have the house to ourselves!!
T went to the bathroom to get prepared and I quickly stripped, got out the rose crop, the Peridise anal toy and lube. I placed a folded pillow on the center of the bed, got myself over it with bottom up and placed the crop between my cheeks with the rose near my rosebud and the handle between my legs and waited anxiously for her return.

She entered the room and said " So, you have been preparing too". She was wearing a satin bustier with gartered stockings and a cute little black bow tie. I told her I had two roses for her, one to use and one to be used. She said, I can't just jump into that right away, lets have some warmup. She rubbed my back and backside, she wanted to use her nails but was worried about leaving marks since I had a DR. appt in 2 days. I told her I didn't mind if I went with scratches, but she said she would be embarrased since they would know who had done it. LIfe in a small town.

She told me to roll over and we kissed and fondled, sucked her nipples and fingered her pussy. She made her way down to my crotch and gave me some awesome head. I then returned the favor and went down on her wet pussy, licking and sucking. She eventually said she wanted something inside her and handed me the Peridise. It is a little small for this use, since it's an anal toy but I used it on her as well as I could. What made the difference is when she pulled out the Hitachi Magic WAnd. I used that on her, vibrating that hard plastic toy in her pussy, her asshole and her clit. She had a roaring, squirting orgasm and I gave her no mercy, holding that vibrator on her and torturing her with a prolonged orgasm that had her writhing, moaning, groaning, screaming out loud and finally begging me to stop.

I let her rest for a few minutes, then she said it was time for me to get mine, but if I wanted the Peridise, I would have to pull it out of her with my mouth. She has such great instincts! I was happy to have her straddle me and plant her dripping pussy on my face. I licked her clean and played with that toy with my teeth. I held it while she pumped up and down on it, I was almost getting face fucked! Finally I pulled it out and managed to turn it around without my hands and took the working end into my mouth, then I sucked that plastic toy deep into my mouth. She finally took hold of the handle end of it with her teeth as we kissed and pulled it out.
"now bend over the pillow"
I quickly complied and presented my ass. She started out stroking my cheeks, then spread them and blew on my asshole, the cool breeze sure made me jump. Then she stroked me with the crop and started lightly cropping my ass. After she warmed me up, she asked if I really was ready for this, I said " OH yes". She dribbled some cool lube on my waiting hole, then rubbed the hard plastic Peridise on there. I tried to just relax and be open to it, then she pressed it in, it was in my very quickly. She worked it in and out a little, then she fired up the Magic WAnd, I knew I was a goner now. She buzzed my nuts with that and I started to fly. She vibrated the Peridise with it and my insides were a-quiver. My cock was pulled behind me on the pillow and she used the crop on it and my balls. Then she cropped my ass and put the wand right on the slit of my cock. I had hoped to make more of a session out of this, but this was too much and I came with a roar. She kept that vibrator on me for longer than I needed, but fortunately she didn't quite torture me as long as I had on her. AFter I had come back to earth some, she gentley tugged the peridise out of my ass and I collapsed on the bed.

I'm anxiusly awaiting T's return from Europe so we can try out that new flogger, oh and that new ball stretcher parachute that just arrived from Lifestyles in Leather!

Well, that will make things more fun for me to read; just learned how to add photos to posts and added some to the last post. I've been putting up some pictures on a site called Fetlife, a place for people into kink and fetish and also on Flickr. Can't believe that I hadn't posted at all in 2008, well it was a really busy year, renovating the kitchen, but it's done now, so hopefully this year will be more fun!

Valentines chocolate

Been waaaay to long since I wrote anything, haven't caught up on the Hitachi magic wand on our anniversary, many birthday spankings, sex on the sailboat in the V.I., getting shaved at the hotel.
So I'll just start with the most recent and try to catch up eventually!

It was Valentines week and T had been making some home made chocolates. We had joked about spreading that melted chocolate on our bodies. That evening, after the youngest child had finally gone to bed, T said she was going to change into something more comfortable. She returned with her robe on and opened it to show me her chocolate covered nipples! Yummy, I wasted no time at getting one of them in my mouth and licking and sucking that chocolate. By the time I got done cleaning off the second one, she was trying to pull my shirt off over my head. I peeled off the long sleeve shirt and kept on the t shirt. I had prepped for this event by wearing some old underwear that was due to be retired since it was full of holes. I hoped she would take the hint and rip it off me! Well, she picked up on that clue quickly and expanded the big hole on the back of the shirt.
I peeled off my jeans so she could see that my underwear was ready for the same type of shredding. I had worn my favorite leather belt and she pulled it out of the belt loops, all right, she was picking up on all the hints! T then started expanding the holes in my tattered jockey shorts. She also tore long narrow strips of fabric out of the t shirt and used these to tie up my nuts. I helped her get this nice and tight since she was worried about hurting me and that's just what I wanted.
She managed to tie several pieces of the shirt very tightly around my chest, nicely framing my nipples and making my chest bulge like mini titties. She knelt down and sucked and licked my cock and balls, which were bulging in their bonds.
When she stood back up I reached for the belt and began using it on her ass. I wrapped my left arm around her shoulders and hugged her to me and used the belt to whip her ass, thighs and back. It was really hot to be hugging her lovingly yet holding her in place for the whipping. We talked about it afterward and she also really enjoyed that concept.
I eventually gave the belt to her and asked to be warmed up. She used the belt all over my body, whipping my ass, thighs, belly, chest and back. Some of those strokes the belt really wrapped at the tip and I knew there were some welts that would last.

After a while she said maybe I'd like to see what I was doing and she knelt on the couch and presented her ass. I used that leather belt to stripe her ass nicely, then gave her some shots in the ass crack and up her crotch onto her hot pussy. I whipped her back and she raised up so that I had access to her breasts which also got some hot licks from the belt.
Her ass looked so hot that I had to lick it, so I knelt behind her and kissed and licked her hot ass cheeks. Then I spread her legs and licked her pussy. It was hard to get in there well at that angle, so I sat down on the floor and tipped my head back on to the couch cushion and pulled her pussy down onto my mouth. She rode my like this until my neck ached and so did her knees.
She got up, turned around and sat down and offered her self to me, but I had another game in mind.
I said, "Aren't there some clothes pins in the next room?" She said, you go get them, I'll stay here and masturbate. So I went and got the basket of pins. I said, "I'm going to take turns, putting one on me, then one on you." I put the first one on the bottom of my restrained scrotum. She thought I would put it on the same location for her and was surprised when I put on her breast. Now she would get to anticipate right to the last moment where it was going.
I continued placing those clothespins on both of us, up and down both sides of her labia, on my nuts, her breasts, my foreskin. Several times she said no that's too much when I tried places like her inner labia, clit hood or nipples. The last one I put on my lip, then went to do likewise with hers, but she said no that hurts too much so I took another one on my lip for her.


The whole time I was placing the pins she was rubbing her clit and working towards an orgasm, I was determined to wear the pins till she came and fortunately she did soon. I took off the pins from both of us, leaving the four that were on each side of my nipples for last. Anyone who has worn clothes pins for any length of time know that they usually hurt more taking off when the blood rushes back in. I said to T, "I want you to take these off my nipples, so that you inflict the pain of release." She stood and took them off, licking and sucking the blood back in as I gasped and groaned. AFter she removed the last one I asked her to suck my nipple hard, then to bite it!




It was sooo hot. My tightly tied balls were still straining for relief and she asked if I wanted to come now. I asked if she thought I should or not. She said do you really want to take a chance that I say no? I thought about it and said that was a somewhat scary concept, since after all this buildup I really wanted to, but the concept of having her control whether I could come or not was very exciting. She said let's go up to bed and see what happens. We gathered up our clothing and went upstairs, my bound balls rubbing against my thighs.

WE got into bed and she soon had me fucking her. She got out the Hitachi magic wand and started buzzing her clit with it, that meant she was going to come anyway. AS she panted toward orgasm, I struggled to control mine, determined to not let go unless she said I could. She started to come and I asked "May I come?", fortunately she managed to say yes, come now, and I did with a roar.

After we settled down some, I managed to release my aching purple balls, then collapsed into a deep sleep. When I woke in the morning, the t shirt strips were still wound tightly around my chest and there were some purple belt marks on my belly. Signs of a great night of hot sex!