No Happy Birthday this year

So my birthday is getting to be the only date all year when I can expect a spanking. T can rationalize that it's ok to "hurt" me then and I love it! Well, I don't expect crazy kinky sex on a Wednesday night after work and with child in house, but I was hoping for at least some sex. But nooo, just like the foiled plans of MR MD of Over Forty Married Sex blog, she's got her period, again, three weeks after the last time. Seems that as menopause is approaching she is getting it more frequently. Whoopee! So maybe all is not lost and I'll be dreaming of having some hot times this weekend.
If not, I may just have to take matters into my own hands. Did have some fun selfbondage today while in the woods by the creek. Despite the chilly air, I tied my naked crotch to a tree with a rope. Then tied one end to the tree, the other to my cock and balls and wound the rope tightly around myself as I spun around slowly taking up the 20 feet of rope around and around my hips, managing to get one turn between the nuts, the next over my cock and finishing the last couple wraps around my arms and chest, pinning them to my sides. But despite the enjoyment of this, it just leads to yet more frustration. Fun though.