Friday, November 28, 2014

Tie me up and fuck me

Quick recap on a recent evening.  We were home alone and I was hoping for, but not expecting, some sexual activity.  T called me to the bedroom and asked if I was interested.  Of course I was! She told me to strip. I stood before her naked wondering what she had in mind.  She produced a hank of thin rope and tied it around my chest, framing my nipples. Then my hands were tied together and she had me hold my arms over my head. Another hank of rope was pulled from under the bed covers and she tied it very tightly around my waist. I was surprised that she had another hank of rope, this one was tied around the base of my cock and balls, then up my ass crack, finishing up in a way that kept my ass spread open nicely.  Yes, she had more rope that was tied in a daisy chain fashion down my thighs.
She told me to sit on the floor, that really pulled the ropes tighter!  She grabbed my ankles and dragged my bare ass across the carpet. Very interesting with my ass cheeks spread open.
My knees were tied together, my balls behind my thighs and my erect cock standing up.  She couldn't resist that and sat on my cock, taking me into her hot, wet pussy.
I was already extremely aroused at this point but thought I could hold off for a good fuck.  I was doing pretty well until I started to think about how I was not feeling like I had to cum.  Just thinking about it brought me to the brink immediately.  I tried to let her know that I had to stop, but it was too late.  I came hard, but in an agony of desperation at my failure to not be able to stop.
I had no time to even recover my senses when T was suddenly straddling my face, then planted her hot wet pussy on my open mouth.  I was very surprised, but happy that she was making me eat me cum from her.  I licked and sucked and swallowed and tried to clean every bit of my cum from her.
Her knees soon gave out and she got up and staggered to the bed.  She left me lying there tied up on the floor and went for her magic wand vibrator.

I managed to get up on my knees and shuffle my way to the bed.  I jammed my face into her pussy below the big vibrator and licked her till she squirted in my mouth.

Now, that is a meal to be thankful for!

Friday, November 21, 2014

Pleasant Surprise

You never know when life's little surprises will appear. Especially if you have a spontaneous spouse.
After a long day of work, my loving wife wanted to relax with her quilting rather than make dinner right away.  She did the tough part of meal prep, coming up with an idea of what to make.  I told her I would be happy to get supper going and went to the kitchen.
A few minutes later I heard her calling to me and went to the sewing room.  She said "Just because I have my period and am sewing doesn't mean you should not be dressed properly for making dinner for me.  Would you like to be dressed properly?"  I assured her that I would and we went to the bedroom.  I took off my pants and underwear while she went to her lingerie drawer to pick out a pair of panties for me.  She told me to put them on, then present myself for inspection.  She liked what she saw since my cock was hanging out of the large opening in the front of the panties, which was supposed to be in the back, but I knew to wear them backward.  She played with my cock and balls and then began to kiss and suck on it.  I was enjoying this very much when I smelled meat cooking.
"The meat is on the stove!" I exclaimed.  She immediately stopped pleasuring me and I ran to the kitchen.  Fortunately nothing had burned yet.  I went back to the sewing room to report this and she said that I should be punished for leaving food on the stove.  She took me into the bedroom and grabbed a leather belt.  I bent over the end of the bed and she began to gently whip my ass.  I truly enjoy having my ass whipped and she knows it.  She told me to stand up and gently whipped my erect cock.  She was having trouble with her aim and I told her she needs to practice more often. She then got our "cock swatter".  It is a leather fly swatter shaped like a rooster on a wood handle.  It packs a whallop and she swatted my cock and balls with that. She paddled my ass to a nice rosy red. Then a few solid smacks to my nipples.  About then I noticed a wasp crawling on the floor towards me.  I said "There's a bee on the floor". Funny thing is she thought I said I was gonna pee on the floor!
The bee was squashed and so was the fun and games as I dashed off to the kitchen to make dinner.

Return of the Spanking Marriage blog

I am happy to see that one of my favorite bloggers, Susan at A Spanking Marriage ( has returned to blogging.  I always greatly enjoyed her blogs in the past and wished and hoped that someday I would have a spanking marriage like theirs.
Her most recent post was about the rules in their relationship and I posted a loooong response.
It was so long that I decided to copy it here for posterity:

This set of rules is very much in line with my goals for our flr. My wife and I have a loose, playful form of flr right now, without any real "rules". There are things that I do on a regular basis, but it is really on my own volition and there is not a punishment for not doing so.
Several years ago I had masturbated during my morning shower and then found my wife in bed, very much aroused and ready for sex. I was appalled to find that I could not do that for her because I had just cum. After that I vowed to not ever ruin the opportunity to have sex with her and have pretty much entirely stopped masturbating, other than rare occasions when she is away for a few days and even then I often don't cum, saving that for her. I also have encouraged her to not let me cum without permission when we are together. The tough thing about that is trying to provide her with pleasing intercourse when I am bursting to cum after weeks of denial. She has learned that it is in her best interest to deny me orgasm and keep me in a state of arousal for extended periods as I am very attentive to her then.
I made it my own rule to always sit while using the toilet. She has found that the toilet area stays much cleaner without a male splashing around.
I keep my cock, balls and ass shaved at all times, with her permission. She has recently stated that she does like me that way, so I hope to make this a permanent state.
I do enjoy the occasions when she has me wear panties, but it is not a regular thing, hopefully someday!
I do enjoy when she gives me play spankings, floggings and belt whippings and she seems to be enjoying that more too as she sees how much I enjoy it. I don't think she has ever given me a real punishment spanking. I don't know if I am that good of a husband to never need one.
I do enjoy when she is in control and would appreciate having actual rules and perhaps some required ritual behaviors like kneeling before her at least once a day.
The one thing that she would likely punish me for and I do really need to be controlled from is internet use. I have a very long standing porn addiction and I know that she does not like me viewing it as she sees it as a form of cheating on her.
I truly wish that she could see fit to join me in reading such well reasoned and well written blogs as your to learn that this can be a wonderful, loving lifestyle.
But in her own time, I hope and believe that we will find our way to our mutually happy place.

Thursday, November 13, 2014

Birthday Beating

Our journey into kinky sex started many years ago with giving each other mutual birthday spankings each year. I always looked forward to giving and getting these spankings. As the years progressed of course the number of spanks increased. Even the yearly increase was not enough and I usually went for the standard count applied numerous times over various body parts, or numerous counts with different implements. Sometimes there was an uncounted warm up spanking before the hard ones started to be counted.
As my birthday drew closer this year my wife and occasional mistress asked what I wanted for my birthday. She knew of course that all I wanted was a good spanking session. I was fantasizing about variations on the spanking that I would like to request such as those mentioned, but thought that would be topping from below and would be best to leave it to her. She usually surprises me in some delightful way! It worked out very well this year that she had the day off and I was able to come home for a long lunch on my birthday.

We made some personal sized Boboli pizzas and put them in the oven. I had recently confessed to T during a hot sex session while I was on the brink of coming that I sometimes came home for lunch and tortured myself. I told her that I would get naked, put a stretching harness on my balls and nipple stretchers on my nipples. Then I would eat lunch that way and maybe whip my ass before going back to work. She told me that while the pizza baked I should go and dress myself the way I do when home alone for lunch. I quickly stripped and put on the stretchers along with a toy that cinches around the cock head with two short chains dangling from it. I put my robe on as it was chilly and put several brass rings and hooks in the pocket.

We had lunch while I got stretched, then went to the bedroom and I took off the robe. She told me to get out the implement to be spanked with. I got out a small flogger, large flogger, riding crop and a heavy wide leather belt. I placed them on the bed and said I couldn't decide which one, so maybe she would have to use them all (hint hint) T went to my toy drawer and got out the over the door cuffs and a tie. She put the cuffs on my wrists and put them over the door and shut it, so I was strung up against the door. She then tied the tie around my head as a blindfold. This was very unusual and exciting as I couldn't see what she was doing anymore.
We often tell fantasies to each other while having sex. Recently I was talking about tying her up and had mentioned tying rope all over her body including her toes and tying knots on the soles of her feet so she couldn't get away. To walk she would have the knots digging into the delicate soles of her feet.
T brought my slippers over and had me put them on since I was standing on the tile floor. Surprisingly, there was rope knotted in them and I was now standing on the knots. Be careful what you tell your Mistress! She apparently also got the brass rings out of my robe pocket and hung those from the ball stretcher.

Now she started stroking the flogger over me, then began with light swishes of the flogger. We were both very aroused already so it didn't take her long to start flogging me in earnest. Apparently she was flogging my chest to knock the suckers off my nipples. She flogged my belly and my cock and balls. She flogged my sides and around to my ass. I thrust my hips forward so she could get both sides.
Being blindfolded, it was hard to tell sometimes what she was using to beat me with, but she did beat and whip me wonderfully. After a while she opened the door enough to release the cuffs and turn me around so she could do my back and ass in earnest. I believe she stripped during this time too.
She was whipping my ass and thighs hard when we heard a car come down the driveway. She had been expecting a delivery and she said it probably would not be left without her signing for it. She slipped on some clothes and opened the door. She closed the door behind her, leaving me helplessly hanging from the door, red assed and hard cocked. It was very interesting to be there like that, knowing that she was talking to the deliveryman while her husband was bound and naked in the middle of a beating. I suppose in an emergency I could have released myself from the velcro cuffs, but at the moment I felt very helpless as I waited for her to return. When she did, she stripped and had me turn around again so she could pay attention to my front. My cock was very hard and got more so when she belt whipped my nipples. Then she slapped my cheeks and told me to put my tongue out. I held my tongue out for her and she whipped my tongue, very lightly at first, then harder and harder. I was moaning and groaning and squealing when the belt hit my lips. Ouch, that really smarts and not in a good way.
Then T focused on my cock and whipped the hard head with the riding crop. I was so into this and thrust my hips forward as I arched my back and stood on my toes. She whipped my thighs hard and beat my white belly, leaving long red stripes. My balls were still in the stretcher and bulging tight and shiny as she hit them with the belt. I groaned out “Thank you Mistress”. My cock was incredibly hard when she took a piece of ice from her glass and placed it on my cock head. It felt incredible as the ice melted from the heat. She then told me that she was placing the slender piece of ice into the hole in the end of my cock. I could only imagine it as she said it looked like an icicle sticking out of my cock. This was very exciting for her and T was ready to have some pleasure herself.

She untied the blindfold and released me from the cuffs. She laid back on the bed and told me to put my hard cock in her. It felt so good to sink into her wet hotness. Unfortunately, I was way too worked up to give her a fast, hard fucking for more than a minute without risking coming and I pulled out. I pulled her magic wand vibrator out of the drawer and began eating her hot wet pussy while she applied the vibrator to her clit.
I started fingering her and put one, two then three fingers in her wet pussy. She said she wanted more and told me to get out her dildo. I put the small plastic one in her while I put her glass dildo in my mouth to warm it up. I gave her a good show of me sucking that glass cock. I then fucked her with the glass dildo while she brought her self to a squirting orgasm. I pulled the dildo out and she told me to lick her. I gently brought her down from her high while licking up her juices. We rested for a few minutes, then she told me I needed to get dressed and go back to work. My cock was still half erect as I followed her directions and got dressed, washed my face, kissed her goodbye and took my sexual frustration to work for the rest of the day.
What a great birthday beating!

Tuesday, November 04, 2014

Saturday morning arousal leads to Sunday play

Saturday morning I woke to feel T spooning me from behind. I wriggled against her and she pulled up her knee and pushed her thigh into my ass crack. I pushed back some more to encourage her. She then reached around front and fondled my cock which was rapidly getting hard. I started alternately humping her thigh and thrusting my cock into her hand. She said this was really getting me going, I must be imagining some good things. Well, then I did start imagining being fucked from behind by a woman with a strap on while I was fucking T with my cock. I was seriously thrusting back and forth now as I imagined the strap on driving up my ass as I pulled out of T. I began groaning and breathing very heavily, then T let go of my cock, rolled away from me and announced that it was time to get up and start our day as we didn't have time to play. I was sooo hot and erect, but she makes the rules and tells me when I can have sex.
After our shower I was lingering around the bedroom and not getting dressed. T asked if I couldn't decided what to wear and I said yes, I was trying to decide what underwear I should get out, hint, hint.
She went to her lingerie drawer and pulled out a pair of purple lace thong style panties and tossed them to me. I don't think I have ever worn panties like this before, the inch wide lace that goes up the back was right up my crack all day, the lace scratching on my ass hole constantly. T said “that's what women have to put up with all the time, wearing clothing designed by men!”. Maybe I would not want to wear them every day, but for this day, I certainly enjoyed the stimulation and the constant reminder that I was wearing pretty purple lace panties for my wife.
It was a busy day, with no further sex play. I hoped that we would have some fun the next morning when our daughter would be away for a few hours.
I slept in those lace thong panties all night. When we awoke I waited to see what might transpire. I hoped T was also thinking about play this morning and wondered if we would shower first and feel free to lick everywhere on our clean bodies. She got out of bed and went for her robe. I was very surprised when she instead took a bunch of her belts off the hooks on the wall. She told me to get out of bed. I hurried to stand before her. She buckled 2 belts tightly around my chest, one above and one below my nipples. Then 2 more as tight as possible around my belly as I sucked in as much as possible. The last was around my hips, pinning my hardening cock in the purple lace. My balls were separated by the thong and bulging out between my legs as she pulled the thong even deeper into my ass crack.

She then picked up my leather belt that I had conveniently left out next to the bed and started gently whipping my belly with it, then whipping my nipples as they bulged out between the tight belts cinching my rib cage tight.
She moved down and whipped my lower belly. She knows I love to cover my soft white belly with red stripes and she gave me many. Next was some lighter strikes on my cock as it bulged against the purple lace, then a few on my balls hanging free from the thong.

Then she told me to turn around and started whipping my ass. After warming up my ass she told me to bend over. That was an interesting feeling with the belts tightly constricting my waist, made even tighter as I bent over and offered up my ass for her to stripe with the belt. After a good bent over beating she had me stand up and come stand by the bed as she sat down. She gave my cock a few more swats, then released the belt pinning it down. Much to our surprise a spurt of pre cum came out right through the lace and we both laughed out loud at the sight. She scooped up the dribble with her finger and placed it at my lips. I dutifully licked it up. She pulled the thong down and released my cock then and licked up the pre cum. It felt wonderful and I hoped she would take it into her mouth. She laid back and took it into her pussy instead. She does love to be fucked and I did just that.
I was soon ready to come and pulled out while she reached for the magic wand vibrator. I got down on my knees by the bed and licked her pussy as she used the vibrator to bring herself to a moaning, squirting orgasm.
After she had recovered from her orgasm, she placed the vibrator on my cock head and turned it on. That sure turned me on and I thought she was going to make me come. I asked for permission to come and she said “No, I don't think you've gone long enough yet, maybe later.” and turned of f the vibrator.

I was denied orgasm, but it had been great sex anyway I look at it. I was happy, yet still aroused and sexually frustrated, just the way we both like me to be.