Wednesday, August 21, 2013

2 Months!

Yes, I haven't had an orgasm in two months.  That doesn't mean I haven't had any sex, in fact we have been have lots of great sex and my loving wife is having more orgasms than she ever had before and is loving it.  I am loving it too.  Like I said, we are having more, better sex than ever while I am not coming for months now.
Recent highlights included 3 orgasms in one day for her, unheard of in the past.  During one of these she had total release including her bladder and she peed in my mouth as she came and I drank her nectar.  As we were having loving intercourse the other night she had me writhing on the edge of orgasm as she told me tales of what she would do to me in the future.  One of these was putting something up my urethra.  A few months ago she slid a chop stick deep into my hard cock and it was one of the most incredible things we have ever done.  She said she plans to put a catheter in me all the way into my bladder.  She is a nurse with experience in doing this with patients, but I never thought she would allow it to be a sexual activity.  She said that she will use one with an inflatable balloon at the end which will keep it in and prevent me from peeing.  She said that she would make me depress the syringe that inflates the balloon myself.  Then she will lead me around by my "leash" and make me drink lots of water so that I am desperate and begging to be allowed to pee.  The thought of her having such intimate control of my body is very arousing.
After we finished our lovemaking I found out that this is not just a fantasy as she showed me the catheter that she had stashed under her pillow.  She said I can anticipate that when I least expect it she will use it on me.

We also had a good talk the other night about our sex life and my desire for a wife led marriage.  I was happy to hear that she is enjoying her end of it, particularly the many orgasms and my serving her.
She said that at first it seemed like a big responsibility and a lot of work, but that it really isn't.  I am so relieved to hear that this is a positive thing for her and she is not just going through the motions to please me.  She is feeling more like it is ok to cause me pain and knows that I like it.
I told her that I would enjoy if she spanked or flogged me on a regular basis, a maintenance spanking, as I crave it so much that I do it to myself.  I also told her that I would enjoy having some ritual adoration of her including kneeling before her at least once a day and kissing or licking her pussy daily if she allows it.

She is encouraging me to communicate more, which is difficult for me, but I am so glad that she is willing to talk about these things since I think about it all the time!

Edit: Upon reviewing my orgasm calendar a week or two later, I find that I was prematurely celebrating my milestone.  This post was actually made at the 7 week mark.  I have since reached 8 weeks and 5 days and it is now Labor day weekend.  I just finished scrubbing the kitchen floor, naked with my balls weighted, nipple suckers on, at T's request.  There is still a full day of the holiday weekend. I don't know if she will grant me permission to orgasm or keep me denied and at her service for the whole weekend.  I have struggled so hard to not cum as we have intercourse and she tells me nasty stories of things she could do to me just to make me even more on the edge.

9 comments:

Eric M said...

Very exciting! Sounds like things are on a great track for the two of you. Congrats on two months!

Mistress Marie said...

It is great when you reach the point in the male initiated WLM where you can breathe a little sigh of relief and know that she wants it and now enjoys it and is more settled into her role.

The catheter idea I find hot has hell. I would love to do the exact same thing to my slave, but I have no experience with it and would be too afraid of doing something wrong. I cannot wait to hear about this.

Communication is vital because she isn't a mind reader. Communicating your ideas and thoughts is great, and then stepping back to see how and when she will implement them tests your patience too.

MRBILL said...

Mistress Marie,
I will be anxiously awaiting the time she decides to try the catheter in me. I am a little afraid of what it may be like: will it hurt, what if it won't come out again, how big is that thing?
Will certainly be writing about it when she does.
Yes, I am so happy that she does seem to enjoy this role. I believe that it is very natural for her and that she just needs to accept that it is okay.

I'm-Hers said...

I thoroughly enjoy reading your blog and am so glad that you two are really having fun. I can't however imagine the 'joy' of feeling like I'm going to explode inside with urine because I have a balloon keeping me from peeing LOL. I once had a cat die from that very issue - urethra blockage. "Erotic" isn't the word that comes to mind when I think of poor 'Pumpkin' writhing in pain because he couldn't go and had to be put down. Be careful what you wish for my friend :)

On a serious note, I think that the fact that the two of you are talking as you are is great. So much of marriage and love hinge on the ability to talk about everything and you two seem to have that openness. Congrats!

submanhub said...

Just loved that post.

Her overt control of you sounds great.

I actually love the idea of the catheter. I guess there is a narrow range of things that are kinky erotic for one person and different for another person. I would not want my kidneys damaged but some pain and having her control and me having to endure. wow.

On the flip side, I had a catheter once when I was in hospital and it just filled a bag. In a way I fanaticise about wearing diapers and having a catheter.

MRBILL said...

Yes, this may be one of those things that is best kept a fantasy.
I do find the idea of her having something "attached" to me inside of my body to be really intense. A leash not only attached to my cock, but in it? Wow.
Be careful what you wish for indeed. She often reminds me that I started this.
I would think it only a fantasy if she didn't actually pull the catheter out from under her pillow.
And I can't get her to put something up my ass, although there were those green cherry tomatoes a few weeks ago, four of them up my ass felt very good.
Anyway, I don't think she would make the bladder control too much, but I am worried about the actual catheterization. That thing looked rather big to shove up my cock!

ALL HERS said...

Nice to hear you have made the 2 month mark. If she makes you wait longer, say 4 months, just know that the first 2 months are really the most intense. My wife makes me wait 4 months or better all of the time. I would think that after 2 months I would get much more horny, being almost unbearable. But the first 2 months I find that I am always aroused, and it lessens every so much after that. But after 4 months I am so horny I can hardly stand it. But this is what I asked for years ago. My wife agreed and she loves orgasm denial now.

ALL HERS said...

Nice to hear you have made the 2 month mark. If she makes you wait longer, say 4 months, just know that the first 2 months are really the most intense. My wife makes me wait 4 months or better all of the time. I would think that after 2 months I would get much more horny, being almost unbearable. But the first 2 months I find that I am always aroused, and it lessens every so much after that. But after 4 months I am so horny I can hardly stand it. But this is what I asked for years ago. My wife agreed and she loves orgasm denial now.

Anonymous said...

OMG...that is that hottest thing I've ever heard. Nurses have always had a dominant thing going on. They are always doing things TO YOU when you are in a compromising position. They know what you don't. They tell you what to do. Damn dude...she is going to take you places you can't imagine!