Yes, as of tomorrow, it will be six weeks since my last orgasm. A new record for me. It's been a busy summer with scout camp, family reunion camping week, weekend at the shore. Many times we have thought that if I didn't get to cum that day it wouldn't happen till after the upcoming event, pushing it off for another week. Sometimes that was incentive to deny me, knowing that not coming today would stretch it out another week.
Sometimes I have been extremely horny and eager to come, especially when we were having sex and I was hanging on the edge and trying so hard not to orgasm. I think that T generally doesn't care too much about denying me, so it is my own struggle to not cum. There are some times that she does intentionally not allow me to when she wants me to be attentive to her in the following days as she has learned how attentive I am to her when I have been aroused and left unsatisfied.
I actually prefer to stay in that state and I think I am getting to the point where I prefer to go much longer periods of time without orgasm. Everyone has there own feelings on this, but I am at the point where 1 week is the minimum time I feel I need to go and with some trepidation I yearn for once a month or less. 2 or 3 weeks is now common.
I have read of some more extreme tease and denial couples who have gone a year without letting the man orgasm. So if I am at a month and a half now, could I get to that point in a few years? Maybe, if T continues to learn to enjoy dominating me and enjoying the state that my orgasm denial keeps me in. I don't think it would ever get to that point because she enjoys my orgasms as much or more than I do now. I mean, I love to orgasm, but I am usually the one who chooses not to.
During the past month we have had some hot quickie sexual encounters where we didn't go to orgasm, usually because we needed to keep quiet or T did not have her vibrator. No O for her in my mind means no O for me. During those times we have had some good sex talk though.
One time she was talking about dominating me including shaving me. She did some fantasy talk about shaving me from my nipples to my knees. I was struggling very hard not to come as she teased me with talk of taking me to the small local beach in a small bathing suit after that shave. Then she said that she would have to whip my ass first so that my red cheeks were showing, also have me wear nipple suckers right up to the time we got to the beach so that my nipples would be sticking out with red rings around them. Then she would show me off at the beach so that any women there would know that she owned me and used me. This was soo hot.
Another day she talked about peeing on me. I don't remember the details or how the topic came up, but I told her that I would be okay with that. She is a nurse and it goes against her grain to do something like that, which makes it even hotter to me that she would do that to me.
I told her about a couple I read about. The wife made her submissive husband kneel down with his face near her crotch while she peed. THen she said that she didn't need toilet paper since she had him there to lick her pussy clean. She pulled his mouth to her crotch and he licked up the droplets of urine. She held his face to her crotch and squeezed out a few more squirts into his mouth.
That went over well, so the next time she just pissed on him from the start, from his cock to his face and in his mouth.
I related this story to T hoping that she would recognize my approval of this activity and maybe take these ideas to heart. She indicated that sometime she might likely surprise me with this. I love to eat her pussy when she comes. Sometimes she squirts and apparently she sometimes releases urine when she comes and I lap it all up. Recently I was eating her early during her monthly period and licking very deep in her cunt and tasted her menses. Maybe someday she will use me by making me lick her when she is in the middle of her period. Not something I really find attractive right now, but in the right state of mind I might think differently.
Although she does occasionally whip me with a belt or flogger briefly, I do wish that would become a more common activity and hope that she will continue to become more comfortable with inflicting more pain on me as that is something I deeply crave. If she doesn't do it, I will even whip myself, though it is much better when she does it to me. I also crave more bondage and to be made to either wear something to remind me of her and my submission or to be kept marked in some way.
I would also love to establish some sort of regular devotional rituals, be it kissing her pussy daily or kneeling before her at least once a day or being spanked regularly.