Monday, August 12, 2013

6 weeks

Yes, as of tomorrow, it will be six weeks since my last orgasm.  A new record for me.  It's been a busy summer with scout camp, family reunion camping week, weekend at the shore.  Many times we have thought that if I didn't get to cum that day it wouldn't happen till after the upcoming event, pushing it off for another week.  Sometimes that was incentive to deny me, knowing that not coming today would stretch it out another week.
Sometimes I have been extremely horny and eager to come, especially when we were having sex and I was hanging on the edge and trying so hard not to orgasm.  I think that T generally doesn't care too much about denying me, so it is my own struggle to not cum.  There are some times that she does intentionally not allow me to when she wants me to be attentive to her in the following days as she has learned how attentive I am to her when I have been aroused and left unsatisfied.
I actually prefer to stay in that state and I think I am getting to the point where I prefer to go much longer periods of time without orgasm.  Everyone has there own feelings on this, but I am at the point where 1 week is the minimum time I feel I need to go and with some trepidation I yearn for once a month or less.  2 or 3 weeks is now common.
I have read of some more extreme tease and denial couples who have gone a year without letting the man orgasm.  So if I am at a month and a half now, could I get to that point in a few years?  Maybe, if T continues to learn to enjoy dominating me and enjoying the state that my orgasm denial keeps me in. I don't think it would ever get to that point because she enjoys my orgasms as much or more than I do now.  I mean, I love to orgasm, but I am usually the one who chooses not to.

During the past month we have had some hot quickie sexual encounters where we didn't go to orgasm, usually because we needed to keep quiet or T did not have her vibrator.  No O for her in my mind means no O for me. During those times we have had some good sex talk though.
One time she was talking about dominating me including shaving me.  She did some fantasy talk about shaving me from my nipples to my knees.  I was struggling very hard not to come as she teased me with talk of taking me to the small local beach in a small bathing suit after that shave.  Then she said that she would have to whip my ass first so that my red cheeks were showing, also have me wear nipple suckers right up to the time we got to the beach so that my nipples would be sticking out with red rings around them.  Then she would show me off at the beach so that any women there would know that she owned me and used me.  This was soo hot.
Another day she talked about peeing on me. I don't remember the details or how the topic came up, but I told her that I would be okay with that.  She is a nurse and it goes against her grain to do something like that, which makes it even hotter to me that she would do that to me.
I told her about a couple I read about.  The wife made her submissive husband kneel down with his face near her crotch while she peed.  THen she said that she didn't need toilet paper since she had him there to lick her pussy clean.  She pulled his mouth to her crotch and he licked up the droplets of urine.  She held his face to her crotch and squeezed out a few more squirts into his mouth.
That went over well, so the next time she just pissed on him from the start, from his cock to his face and in his mouth.
I related this story to T hoping that she would recognize my approval of this activity and maybe take these ideas to heart. She indicated that sometime she might likely surprise me with this.  I love to eat her pussy when she comes.  Sometimes she squirts and apparently she sometimes releases urine when she comes and I lap it all up.  Recently I was eating her early during her monthly period and licking very deep in her cunt and tasted her menses.  Maybe someday she will use me by making me lick her when she is in the middle of her period.  Not something I really find attractive right now, but in the right state of mind I might think differently.

Although she does occasionally whip me with a belt or flogger briefly, I do wish that would become a more common activity and hope that she will continue to become more comfortable with inflicting more pain on me as that is something I deeply crave.  If she doesn't do it, I will even whip myself, though it is much better when she does it to me.  I also crave more bondage and to be made to either wear something to remind me of her and my submission or to be kept marked in some way.
I would also love to establish some sort of regular devotional rituals, be it kissing her pussy daily or kneeling before her at least once a day or being spanked regularly.


9 comments:

ALL HERS said...

We are very similar in what we like. My wife is very dominant and only allows me to cum 4 or 5 times a year. I must wait about 3 months before she will allow me her privledge. Next year, in 2014, she has said I will not be allowed to cum at all, I will have to wait an entire year. She has a saying, "a horny husband is a good husband".

ALL HERS said...

I would like to add that I am also very restricted on how my wife allows me to cum. When months have gone by and she feels that I have earned an orgasm, she will usually rub me . I wear panties 24/7 so when the time comes, she will rub my cock for about 20seconds and tell me, "I am allowing you to cum in your panties. You may make a mess in them". And then I explode.

I am allowed inside my wife maybe 6 times per year, but I am never allowed to cum in her. I must take it out before cumming, and we go to sleep. She gets multiple orgasms 2 or 3 times a week by my tongue and her vibrators. Every morning she plays with my cock thru the panties, and if my behavior and housework has been perfect, she will edge me. Then we get up and start our day. I do not normally wear a CB 6000, only when I am very horny to make sure I have no accidents. She doesn't care for a chastity device, although she will lock it on me . She feels it is an artificial method of orgasm control. She says if I may not cum, then I do not cum. That's it, her telling me should be enough. And it is. I do not allow myself to cum, and can actually feel quite good when denied for 3 months or more. Many times I hope she will deny me longer, but once she tells me I am allowed to cum, I am ready to explode so quickly.

MRBILL said...

Yikes, be careful what you wish for. I wish my wife was more strict and would keep me denied for longer, but I'm not ready for where you are at and my wife even less so.
I am fortunate that she enjoys being fucked and wants me to cum inside her. That is my favorite way to orgasm. I am sure she would agree with your wife's saying though, she has seen the benefit of keeping me from cumming for longer periods of time and that makes for a good husband.

ALL HERS said...

Mobil

Yes, this is what I wanted when I asked my wife for a WLAM over 15 years ago. She agreed and things started out slowly. Since we were both still working then, she enjoyed having me do all of the housework on a day off. All of the vacuuming, moping tile floors on my hands and knees, dusting, doing laundry and learning to prepare some meals. Our children were grown and moved out, leaving the 2 of us to explore and enjoy and new lifestyle

When we had sex, I began to ask her to leave me horny for a week and not allow me to cum. I would pull out of her in time. This she could not understand. She said it was confusing to her because I always enjoyed cumming so much, and now I don't want to cum. I told her how I felt much more submissive to her when really horny and she would she the benefit. Well after about 6 months things changed. I was kept horny and teased every day for up to a month. Then it went to 2 months, and she really enjoyed my behavior. I have only cum twice this year of 2013, once in the end of March, and the other time August 2. That will be it until possibly Dec. she said. And then next year, no cumming at all for me. She wants to see how my reaction and behavior will be like. It will be difficult, but like going 4 months, don't think about it too much. And she gets furious if I have a wet dream. I had one early last year and she punished me for months. A lot of corner time, tied up to a hook in her walk in closet for hours several days,and having her assign me the same housework over and over again all day long. Like cleaning our windows. One day I did them 4 times, took the entire day from morning to evening. She like additional housework as punishment.

My wife is very sexy and attractive, and even though she turned 60, she looks 45. She has a slim, hot body with nice tits. We live in a community in South Florida and she plays golf or tennis every day of the week with friends. She also teaches a aerobics class twice a week. Everyone comments about her body and looks. She could be a sister of Heather Locklear. Very hot, and makes me so horny when she teases and denies me. I must ask for permission to touch her tits , and after we get up I wait her in the kitchen with coffee on my knees and ask for permission to kiss her panties covered pussy. She usually says no. More T and D. We are both retired now so life is great!!!!

ALL HERS said...

Mobil

Yes, this is what I wanted when I asked my wife for a WLAM over 15 years ago. She agreed and things started out slowly. Since we were both still working then, she enjoyed having me do all of the housework on a day off. All of the vacuuming, moping tile floors on my hands and knees, dusting, doing laundry and learning to prepare some meals. Our children were grown and moved out, leaving the 2 of us to explore and enjoy and new lifestyle

When we had sex, I began to ask her to leave me horny for a week and not allow me to cum. I would pull out of her in time. This she could not understand. She said it was confusing to her because I always enjoyed cumming so much, and now I don't want to cum. I told her how I felt much more submissive to her when really horny and she would she the benefit. Well after about 6 months things changed. I was kept horny and teased every day for up to a month. Then it went to 2 months, and she really enjoyed my behavior. I have only cum twice this year of 2013, once in the end of March, and the other time August 2. That will be it until possibly Dec. she said. And then next year, no cumming at all for me. She wants to see how my reaction and behavior will be like. It will be difficult, but like going 4 months, don't think about it too much. And she gets furious if I have a wet dream. I had one early last year and she punished me for months. A lot of corner time, tied up to a hook in her walk in closet for hours several days,and having her assign me the same housework over and over again all day long. Like cleaning our windows. One day I did them 4 times, took the entire day from morning to evening. She like additional housework as punishment.

My wife is very sexy and attractive, and even though she turned 60, she looks 45. She has a slim, hot body with nice tits. We live in a community in South Florida and she plays golf or tennis every day of the week with friends. She also teaches a aerobics class twice a week. Everyone comments about her body and looks. She could be a sister of Heather Locklear. Very hot, and makes me so horny when she teases and denies me. I must ask for permission to touch her tits , and after we get up I wait her in the kitchen with coffee on my knees and ask for permission to kiss her panties covered pussy. She usually says no. More T and D. We are both retired now so life is great!!!!

Eric M said...

Congrats on reaching a milestone. Regardless of the duration, reaching a personal denial milestone feels great. It may even feel better than the orgasm itself......

MRBILL said...

Yes, I am enjoying setting a new record, but my wife really doesn't care too much. She does find it somewhat amusing though to hear that I haven't come in over a month, but she just laughs and says "self inflicted". She wants me to beg for orgasm, but I am trying too hard to not cum as it is and that would put me over the edge. She really enjoys when I come and I give her credit for not letting me for so long.

ALL HERS said...

Nice to hear that your wife is into orgasm denial. My wife says she has golf and tennis as her sports, and orgasm denial as her hobby. She loves to T &D me every day, allow me to edge, and enjoys seeing the wet spot form in my panties after a good tease session? If the wet spot is ever larger than a quarter, then she says I have cum ( even though I have not, only leaking per cum), and I will be punished . So I do struggle to hold the per cum in if that is even possible. She also loves to tell me to get on my knees and beg for an orgasm. No matter what I say she responds with, "not good enough, for lousy begging I'm adding another month onto your chastity. Try to be more sincere and convincing next time". Of course next time I get the same result.

I love her so and appreciate how she takes the time to keep me horny and works on it . The end result is waiting 3 or 4 months until she allows me to cum in my panties. But she says this is what I asked her for. She is right and although in a strange way I really enjoy being horny for months and months, I would gladly cum if she allowed me the choice.

ALL HERS said...

Nice to hear that your wife is into orgasm denial. My wife says she has golf and tennis as her sports, and orgasm denial as her hobby. She loves to T &D me every day, allow me to edge, and enjoys seeing the wet spot form in my panties after a good tease session? If the wet spot is ever larger than a quarter, then she says I have cum ( even though I have not, only leaking per cum), and I will be punished . So I do struggle to hold the per cum in if that is even possible. She also loves to tell me to get on my knees and beg for an orgasm. No matter what I say she responds with, "not good enough, for lousy begging I'm adding another month onto your chastity. Try to be more sincere and convincing next time". Of course next time I get the same result.

I love her so and appreciate how she takes the time to keep me horny and works on it . The end result is waiting 3 or 4 months until she allows me to cum in my panties. But she says this is what I asked her for. She is right and although in a strange way I really enjoy being horny for months and months, I would gladly cum if she allowed me the choice.